“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3(NIV)
Last week we talked about our emotions, and we left Naomi in her grief. We saw God created our emotions, is not surprised by them, and walks with us through them.
You may have heard it said that we are able to experience great joy due to the great pain we have endured. Each of us exists on a wavelength of emotions. The deeper the pain has cut, the fuller the joy can be. We have to choose to be honest about the pain and see it for what it is. We have to do the hard work of healing and venture forward to live in joy. Some things we get answers to and many things we have to lay at the feet of Jesus-over and over again-to begin to experience healing and acceptance, “ weeping may stay the night, but joy comes in the morning.” (Psalm 30:5)
Naomi’s life displays this beautifully.
We get to peek into her life and her grief and see the toll it took on her. We see that when Ruth pledges to stay with her until death, Naomi’s response is…nothing. We see that she was not able to see the good around her-friends who loved her and Ruth who traveled with her and took care of her. As time goes on, we see her broken heart being mended back together. Ruth goes to work and takes care of Naomi’s needs. As the barley season ends, Naomi begins to heal. Isn’t it interesting God used the season of barley to align with Naomi’s season of grief?
As the barley is harvested and the wheat harvest begins, we see Naomi moving through seasons in her life. Naomi begins to think about Ruth and all she has sacrificed for her. Naomi begins to realize there is more to life than her grief and she looks outward.
Please notice that there is no condemnation for her time grieving. Naomi is healing because she took time to grieve. Grieving does not often give space for the needs of others or for serving. It is a time for raw emotion and reality checks with our relationship with God. We know Naomi was angry with God-so angry, she changed her name! It did not alter how God saw Naomi. Naomi was real and her pain was deep, and God loved her and walked with her through it.
As the book of Ruth moves forward we have the opportunity to see Naomi move from her deepest grief to her greatest joy-a precious grandson. A grandson that would be in the line of Jesus, but all Naomi knew was that she had new life through this baby. I love the words in scripture, “Naomi took the baby and held him in her arms, cuddling him, cooing over him…” And the women of the town told Naomi that Ruth was better to her than seven sons! Seven sons was the picture of perfection and what Naomi had was better than that!
Naomi had returned to Bethlehem and asked to be called Mara. God was not done writing her story. By the end of the book of Ruth, Naomi is called, “Blessed.” She has been given hope again, and she was able to experience the height of joy because she had lived in the depths of pain.
We can be angry with God, feel He is unfair, struggle with Who He is, yell at Him, and question Him. What we cannot do is abandon our faith as we walk through the valleys. We must cling to the Truths of scripture and believe them, even when we do not feel them. That is the only way to get through to the other side and see what He has for us.
Grieving is a process we must walk through. It was never meant for us to live in. If Naomi had stayed camped there, she would have never told Ruth to reach out to Boaz, and the story would have ended with Ruth feeding her by working in the fields. She would never have experienced the joy of holding her grandson. Or God would have used someone or something else to bring His plan to life, and Naomi would have missed out on God’s best because she did not continue to move forward.
“Father, help us to trust You and talk to You when our pain is excruciating. Please wrap Your arms around the women who are in the awful season of grief now.”
For His Glory
Terrie Tollerson (TerrieTollerson.com)
TRBC Women’s Life








