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“For ye were as sheep going astray….” I Peter 2:25 (KJV)

Slowly, gradually without direction or purpose…that’s how relationships fade. Most times, we don’t even see it coming – the lag between closeness and distance. One minute we’re sipping cappuccinos, laughing and sharing every detail of our lives. We remember birthdays and celebrate victories. Intentionally, we carve in time for face to face. And then ….well you know what happens… we get busy, distracted and covered up with commitments. Days go by and we wave through the crowd promising to call next week. Before we know it….next week becomes next month…..distance creeps, and we wonder what happened.

Now that wouldn’t happen to us would it? Whether it’s our fav shopping buddy, best friend, sweet sister or wonderful spouse – relationships will fade if we neglect them. It’s not like we plan to dismiss, ignore or disconnect from the people in our lives. It’s just that other things get in the way, and we know they will understand. Happens even in the most important relationship – our connection with God. Innocently we move further and further away – skipping pivotal moments in His word – shortchanging conversations at His feet for our list of increasing demands.

God has shown us the perfect formula for successful relationships. And it all starts with intentional connection. It involves investment, sacrifice and a genuine passion to know the people in our lives. It requires an ongoing dialogue with our God and not just a quick urgent plea when life gets messy. It means being in the moment with whoever we are with at the moment. Making them a priority in our disconnected world. Yes, even grace covers our pulling aways – but God’s ideal is for us to reap the pleasure of being totally connected to Him and the people He brings into our life.

“Father, we are so prone to wander…hopelessly drifting… and then our Shepherd finds us, calls us and brings us back – thank You Sweet Jesus.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
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