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“For the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” James 1:20 (ESV)

“Smiles are free but sometimes they cost a lot” – saw this on a tweet (Inspired Life) this weekend and it so true. Definitely depicts my past week. Frustration with a doctor’s office about my mom’s pain medicine – quickly attempted to steal my smile when I met with her doctor on Friday. Frustration with my doctor for delays in getting additional physical therapy approved for my shoulder has crinkled my smile a tad bit more. Tough week and crazy schedule at work almost finished off that smile by the end of the day Friday.

Needless to say, I know God was testing my smile factor last week. We all face moments when it is far easier to frown, scream, yell and give a peace of our mind. Don’t get me wrong – when an 82 year old doesn’t have pain meds it can get ugly and unjustified. But amazing what a smile can convey when frustration could choose to steal it away. Staying calm, speaking the truth in a controlled way not only serves us well but it reminds others that we are not controlled by our emotions.

Strength in this arena is not always my shining moment. Too many times I have allowed frustration and impatience to rule. However, showing respect while still expressing an injustice removes the tendency for each party to become defensive. My mom’s doctor appreciated my restraint yet strong concern. He took care of prescribing her meds in advance before we left the office. Win-win for us both. That deadline at work made it 30 minutes ahead of schedule -demonstrated calm in the midst of chaos speaks volumes. Win-win for us all. My issue with my doctor – well that isn’t resolved yet but I’m sure speaking the truth with a controlled attitude will get me better results even if God is the only one who pats me on the back.
So next time we feel injustice and unfairness turning up the heat let’s partner to stay cool. Breathe deep and yes count to ten. Let’s choose to express our situation in a way that honors others, ourselves and most importantly our God.

“Father, too many times we allow our emotions to override our common sense. We forget the importance of showing respecting even when we disagree. Help us to be agents of Your love and grace regardless of the situation.”

For His Glory
Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life