“Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money. Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” James 4:13-14 (NIV)
It’s so easy to get caught up in jobs, family time, and ministry commitments. Busy can be a bad thing when you are focusing more on what’s coming tomorrow and not living in the moment of today. After I was married, I moved away from my immediate family and the budget didn’t allow for many visits back home. We saw each other briefly at major events like a wedding or a funeral. Trust me a funeral is not when you want to finally get together and connect with your family. Add in the fact my family had a tendency to be workaholics, and it was extremely difficult to coordinate a time to get together.
Three years ago my husband and I took the first EVER vacation with my family that included both of my brothers. We enjoyed the time together and promised to not let too much time slip away before the next vacation. Again it took two years before we got together as a family last summer. The time together was great but over too soon. If I knew what was to come I would have planned a longer time together. Within hours of celebrating my birthday last October, my middle brother passed away suddenly from a massive heart attack. In a blink time stopped and our lives were forever changed.
Sadly we have gone out of our way since then to plan times together as family. Gone is the focus on working to make money and in return, we focus on making memories together. God has our life planned from the moment we are conceived; every person, place, and event has a purpose. Seeking God daily will ensure we are in the right place with the right people to live life abundantly as God intended it.
“Dear God Thank You for the family, friends, and coworkers You place in our lives. May we learn to interact with others according to Your will and not waste precious time with the wrong people in the wrong place.
For His Glory,
Katrina Redman
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