Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 12, 2024

The Importance of Godly Counsel

“Where there is no [wise, intelligent] guidance, the people fall [and go off course like a ship without a helm], But in the abundance of [wise and godly] counselors there is victory.” (Proverbs 11:14 AMP)

There are moments in life that are unforgettable. Graduation day. Wedding day. Birth of a child. Sitting across from a counsellor, marriage not expected to last beyond month’s end. Of course, a marriage in this state doesn’t get there overnight. Years of arguments, unrecognized and unresolved brokenness and, as we were to learn, years of thinking decisions were ours alone to make. We had prayed about them, discussed them thoroughly with a consensus, however, failed to consult godly counsel with those decisions that would have the greatest impact on the security of our family.

Solomon advises, “For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure.” (Proverbs 11:14 NIV). Teams assemble to discuss all angles of a decision in business, government and sport; however, when decisions of a personal nature are required why do we think we can make effective decisions on our own? Prayer is not to be undermined; God has provided an additional measure to ensure the right outcome: godly counsel.

Who are those individuals in your life who you would categorize as “godly counsel?” Those whom you know walk closely with the Lord in lifestyle. Set apart for prayer, camping at the throne of God, eager to know His character through His Word and presence. A life of the godly comes with a cost. They’ve turned their backs on the world and remain true to the precepts of God. Age is of no consequence. God has used those half my age to bring me wisdom twice my years.

On those days, when I pleaded with the Lord to let me end my marriage, my godly counsel directed me otherwise. When my insecurities wanted me to run from what the Lord was redeeming in my life, knowing that my decision would have to pass through my godly counsel forced me to stay and deal with my flesh.

Godly counsel is not a magic pill. God’s ways are not easy and most often not instant. More than four years later, He is building a new life for me that is stable, peaceful and good. That includes my marriage. I am convinced that without godly counsel the final story would read very differently. In fact, there’d be nothing worthy of words.

“Father, how we need You; how we need each other! May we recognize our need for godly counsel, seek out those worthy of the title and be brave enough to ask for their wisdom to help us walk a path that glorifies Your character.”

For His Glory

Kathryn Hayman
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 11, 2024

Why Satan Hates Us

“In their case the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.”  2 Corinthians 4:4

“Satan hates you.” I’ve been using this statement quite a lot lately. Especially as I witness my brothers and sisters in Christ—who are glorifying God and pointing people to Jesus—embattled with the ruler of this world. Because, friend, if you are of the Kingdom of Light, rescued and redeemed by the finished work of Jesus (Colossians 1:13-14), the prince of darkness does, in fact, hate you. It’s true because Satan knows his time grows shorter every day. Shorter to accomplish what, exactly? To prevent people from leaving his losing team for the victorious one…and to keep those of us on Team Jesus from being effective ambassadors of Heaven.

So, what am I witnessing that brings those words of fact to my lips? Well, I am part of a church family that is very much entrenched on the battlefield. Our pastor always reminds us that once we are rescued by Jesus, we are part of the rescue team—and our church responds. I’ve never been part of a church community that is so engaged in bringing people (all people) into a relationship with Christ. Whether quietly serving every time the church doors are open, going onto the global mission field, working tirelessly to save babies, supporting first responders, or diving into the foster system to “care for orphans” as the Bible exhorts, these people are on fire. In fact, we just baptized 1,612 people at the beach a few weeks ago. Can you imagine the joyful shouts in heaven?

Ah, but for all that Kingdom-movement and throne-room celebration, there is the seething, vitriolic hissing of Satan and his minions.

The Bible is clear that Satan is after us (Peter 5:8; John 10:10; Ephesians 6:12). And he causes suffering! He can be behind physical suffering (Luke 13:16; 2 Corinthians 12:7), and he is the impetus behind Christian persecution (Revelation 2:10). Satan tempts all of us with fleshly desires, self-idolatry, and pride…all with the goal of us placing anything and anyone (even ourselves) above Jesus as the Lord of our life. He wants to distract us, hurt us, and cause us despair. This great John Piper quote sums it up nicely: “Satan’s aim in causing suffering is to deceive us into believing that God is against us and not for us…Satan aims to undermine our faith in God’s goodness, or God’s power, or God’s wisdom, or God’s kindness. And if Satan can do that, we will be devoured.”

But always remember, beloved, that God is not only Good and Kind and Wise—He is Sovereign! Satan may be the ruler of this world (John 12:31-33; John 14:30), but he’s on God’s leash. And although we are fighting from the place of eternal victory, we still must fight! We must stand firm on the Truth of God’s Word. We must daily put on the armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and resist our enemy (1 Peter 1:8-9).

Another reminder: If you are a follower of Jesus Christ, and Satan is not bothering you…well, consider why he is unconcerned with your activity. Instead, I’d rather get out of bed each morning, thank the Lord for giving me another day to glorify Him, and—with a nod and a smirk—know that my enemy is thinking, “Oh crap, she’s up.” How about it? Let’s look that nasty, smelly, darkness-loving loser in his hateful face and go shine our light.

“Lord, let me not grow numb to the schemes of the enemy in my life, but stand firm against him in faith, in the knowledge of the Gospel, and with the Truth of God’s Word.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 10, 2024

Leading Others Along The Way

“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.” 2 Peter 3:18 (ESV)

A rustling in my rose bush let me know someone was building a new home. Yes, you got it – momma bird was building her nest, piece by piece.  Strategically, she used her beak and feet to transport tiny sticks which she used to weave, pack and shape the nest. Safety is a high priority so you won’t find any birds building on the ledge of a building or a limb of a tree.  A bird’s instinct is to build in the safest, most sheltered space they can find – location is everything.  Exactly why my flourishing rose bush was the sweetest place for momma bird to create a protective place for her babies to hatch.

Now, I’m not usually a bird watcher, yet I have enjoyed seeing this momma bird preparing for her soon to be hatched young.  This weekend, we even sneaked a few peeks into the bush and found three babies with mouths wide open waiting for momma to return with their food.

Baby birds aren’t the only ones with their mouths wide open totally dependent on momma for their food.  We entered this world with an innate dependency to be nursed, cuddled and protected from the moment we left the womb.  We had to totally rely on someone else to provide for our every need.

Spiritual babies are no different.  When I think about the moment when I first invited Jesus into my life, I didn’t have a clue how to nourish my soul.  I was clueless about how to glorify God with my choices and life.  Yet God in his perfect plan surrounded me with spiritual mothers and mentors who led me along the way.  Like the young birds, my mouth was wide open ready to digest every nugget of truth. You may remember those days too – hungry for more of God and thirsty for His presence.

Just in case we forget, momma bird plays a crucial role in the survival of her young.  As seasoned believers, we play a crucial role in the thriving of spiritual babes.  By coming alongside them with grace and love, we can share the truths of God’s word in bite-size pieces so they can digest His goodness.  We can extend mercy in moments when the “old” ways re-surface and celebrate with joy as “new” ways evolve. To nurture someone’s soul and watch God work in their life is absolutely beautiful.

Sweet friends, maybe you’re a spiritual babe desperately trying to find your way in your walk with the Lord.  Don’t give up or grow weary.  Be bold and courageous in seeking out someone who is living out their faith to come alongside you.  And as seasoned believers, we should be alert to those around us who are struggling with their new faith.  Offering to walk alongside them with patience and grace is a beautiful gift – one that honors God and encourages us all in our faith.

“Father, open our eyes to those around us who are hungry for more of You, yet don’t know how to be fed.  Help us to walk with them in their faith journey – never judging, yet fully trusting that You will complete Your work in them.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 7, 2024

When Yield Invites Abundance

“Wait for the LORD; be strong and let your heart take courage; wait for the LORD!” Psalm 27:14 (ESV)

Driver’s education class was my fave in school, and I couldn’t wait to finish the course, take my test and sit behind the wheel all alone. Driving in the city was a little more challenging. I completely got what red stop signs or lights meant. I totally didn’t get what those yellow yield signs and caution lights meant. Unfortunately, I usually ignored them – not a good thing.

Yield is definitely not our usual go to thing, which is exactly the reason these yellow signs and lights were created. Dangerous intersections were commonplace. Arguments arose over who was at fault when accidents happened. So a police officer came up with the right solution – yield signs could cause drivers to slow down and prevent tragic accidents. One year after the first yield sign was put into place, the results were amazing. Not only did it lessen accidents, but it blocked dangerous areas.

Who would have thought yellow could do so much? If you’re like me, you probably enjoy go much better. If I’m really honest, I’d say I don’t like red at all. I’d much rather keep moving forward despite the protection that can be unveiled in slow down, danger is ahead and some things are about to change.

Rather than avoid yellow let’s learn to embrace yield. Let’s not run ahead when God is saying “proceed with caution.” Let’s slow down and examine what’s going on around us before we plunge forward. Let’s not get hung up on surrender and relinquish when yield can be more fruitful.

Deep lessons are learned in the wait and caution. Incredible truths we would have missed had we kept pressing on. God desires for us to avoid dangerous intersections that cross our journey in life. He wants us to avoid the devastation of tragic consequences. Takes courage, discipline and awareness to unpack the obvious right before our eyes. Requires unshakeable trust to allow God to move us instead of self.

Yellow never looked so good to this God loving girl who has struggled through but found He is faithful and true. Gotta love His divine protection even when we tune out the danger. Grateful for His wisdom and discernment. Cherishing His grace for moments when my persistence overrides what God knows is best. Learning not to ignore the prompting in my spirit that births His goodness.

“Sweet Jesus, we are truly independent beings – bent on going our own way – sheep wandering off. Praising You for being my good Shepherd who protects me from self.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 6, 2024

Celebrating Transformation

“Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 2:5 (NKJV)

Morning is my favorite time of day.  Fresh-brewed coffee, the quiet sunrise…the time of day when I read my Bible and pray.  Hoping to enter my day equipped to handle whatever comes my way.  But, still there are so many days when I stumble.  So little evidence of transformation.  Some days it can be downright discouraging.

After reading the Bible and praying, I often go to my favorite devos or blogs for further encouragement.  Some of my favorites are My Utmost for His Highest and desiringgod.org (in addition to TRBC Women’s Life, of course!).  Saturday morning is a great time for reading a little extra…so today I was perusing articles to choose another to read.  I came across an article about how to live a happier life…for years this has been my goal…to be happier. Not just for myself, but for those who have to live with me!  But this morning, another article captured my attention…how to live a holier life.  Without giving it much thought, I eagerly dove in to that article…and as I was reading it, the Lord revealed that this was the transformation He was cultivating through my daily prayers and Bible reading.  In my inner life, I am beginning to choose holiness over happiness.  And, realizing this made me…happy! Still patiently waiting for this transformation to exhibit itself more in my outer life, but choosing to celebrate what I see the Lord doing in my heart.

Sweet friends, if you are like me and struggle to see the ways God is transforming you, I pray that He will show you.  When you catch a glimpse of how your heart and mind are being transformed, celebrate…be glad and rejoice before God; be happy and joyful. (Psalm 68:3)

“Lord, thank you that you are always at work redeeming and transforming those who love You. As we seek more of You, help us to see and celebrate the ways that You are transforming us.”

For His Glory,

Ann Skalaski
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 5, 2024

Awaiting His Call

“For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, so we will always be with the Lord.” (1 Thessalonians 4:16-17, ESV)

 Years ago, I sang a song with my youngest son entitled “Midnight Cry.” One of the verses goes like this – “I hear the sound of a mighty rushing wind, and it’s closer now than it’s ever been. I can almost hear the trumpet as Gabriel sounds the call; at the midnight cry, we’ll be going home!”

Unless you’ve been living on a remote island completely unplugged from society, you most likely have heard some of the world events unfolding around us.  Russia’s invasion of Ukraine was the largest military attack in Europe since World War II.

If you’ve spent any time studying the book of Revelation, then you’ve heard of the Gog and Magog war John describes in Revelation 20. Bible scholars agree that modern day Russia is Gog. China is the “Kings of the East” (Revelation16). Iran is Persia (Ezekiel 38, 39).

We are witnessing biblical prophecies being fulfilled in our lifetime.

Upon hearing the news of Russia’s move, I immediately thought about how close we must be to Jesus stepping out on the clouds and instructing the trumpet to sound. While no man knows the day or the hour, the Bible does give us signs to look for (Matthew 24:36). The prophecies that were foretold to happen before the rapture have all taken place. Any minute the trumpet could signal the dead in Christ to rise. And for those who are still living, we will meet them in the air; we will ascend to Heaven to meet the Lord.

Jesus tells us Himself that we will “hear of wars and rumors of wars, nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom, and there will be famines and earthquakes in various places” (Matthew 24:6-7).

Instead of being overwhelmed by the news –be informed about the signs of the times and sift it all through the Word of God.

When we see these things happening – we’re told to “look up” “because our redemption draweth nigh” (Luke 21:28).

Sweet friends be encouraged that your struggles on this earth are not in vain. There’s so much more awaiting us in Heaven.

God is in still in control. Jesus is coming back!

Don’t listen to the noise of the world – listen for Jesus – any moment God could give the instruction to sound the call to bring us home.

“Father calm our hearts when we see the world going crazy, teach us to run to You. This is all part of Your plan.”

For His Glory

Laura Holmes   (www.ephraimministries.org)
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | June 4, 2024

Time For The V-E-T

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts.”   Isaiah 55:8-9

My dogs—Bella and Caroline—can spell. No, seriously. Saying the word “walk” would send them into a frenzy, so—years ago—we started spelling the word. And so did they. In addition to other words (like “cookie” and “car”) within their spelling vernacular, there is one that brings only fear and trepidation: V-E-T. Bella runs away to hide. Caroline cowers and starts shaking like a jackhammer. Although our sweet veterinarian has never tortured or tormented my dogs, they absolutely despise going to her office. These visits are always to either ensure the girls are healthy or to get them help to restore something that’s out of whack—whether they’re clearly in pain or just not acting like themselves.

The thing is, they’re dogs. Unlike us, their masters, they cannot grasp the concept that going to the vet is for their ultimate good. They don’t understand that the poking and prodding—no matter how distressing for them at the time—is from love and concern. And they do not realize that any uncomfortable (or even painful) prescribed treatment will lead to healing. Sometimes it’s a quick and easy fix—everyone involved is joyously relieved with little time, pain, and expense. But then my mind goes to that big head cone that each of my dogs has had to endure at some point. They absolutely hate it, but it keeps them from focusing on their pain, making an injury worse, or hindering restoration. Not a quick fix.

See where I’m going with all this?

As followers of Christ, we must see ourselves as the dogs in this scenario (not in a “furries” kinda way, mind you). There will be times throughout our walk with the Lord, when we will be hurting and out of whack—whether due to the consequences of sin, the fallenness of this world, or the enemy himself. We limp around, whimper, and cry out in agony. Unlike our pets who don’t entreat us to intervene, we do look to the Lord for help. We just want the pain to go away.

And here’s where the Bella-and-Caroline analogy really kicks in. Because God’s ways and thoughts are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), He will address our situation according to His Sovereignty—for His purposes, His glory, and our ultimate good (Romans 8:28). But we won’t always like it.

Are there times when God instantly and miraculously delivers us from disease, distress, and danger? Of course! I’ve seen it in my own life and, just the other day, I witnessed a cascade of miraculous reversals of a friend’s suffering in a 24-hour period. More often than not, though, we are taken to the v-e-t, so to speak, in our anguish. We lift our eyes to our Master for relief but are met with purposeful discomfort and distress as He uncovers (for us, not Himself) what’s going on. He pokes and prods to shine a light on sin in need of repentance and to identify any eye-protruding logs. Sometimes, friend, He just needs to place a proverbial head cone around our neck, so we’ll focus on our relationship with Him and not the circumstances around us—because that’s where our true restoration is found.

In our walk through this world toward our heavenly home, we may not understand all the whys of our pain. But God, our Master, knows what’s best for us. We have to trust Him and not lean on our pea-sized-brain understanding (Proverbs 3:5). By keeping our eyes on Him, we will find perfect peace (Isaiah 26:3), whether He delivers quick relief, provides eventual healing, or just comforts us through long-lasting suffering.

“I trust You, Lord—help me to trust You (Mark 9:24)! Reveal to me the truth of my pain, Lord. Be glorified through it and show me the good You have for me in it.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | May 31, 2024

When The Unexpected Hits

“Dear friends, don’t be surprised when the fiery ordeal comes among you to test you as if something unusual were happening to you. Instead, rejoice as you share in the sufferings of the Messiah so that you may also rejoice with great joy at the revelation of His glory.” I Peter 4:12 (ESV)

Sitting at my desk, I heard a noise and turned to look out my window. Rain was pouring down. The sun was shining bright, but it was like buckets from heaven dumping. No thunder. No lightning. The usual signs of a storm were nowhere to be found. But the downpour was real and the fact my windows were completely down in my car was a reality that sent me running out into the rain. Umbrella in hand, I attempted to get my windows closed as the winds blew against me. While my hands were fumbling with the window button, my Fitbit watch vibrated and a huge smiling sun face appeared on the screen – “You’re doing a great job.” “Keep up the great work.” Just what I wanted to hear right? Evidently, my heart was racing and I’d achieved all my steps for the day; my health watch was happy.

The sun can be shining and all can appear to be at its finest and then life downpours. Without warning, we can find ourselves face to face with a torrential storm. The unexpected, unannounced drenches us from head to toe. Deadlines pop up right before vacation. Financial strain creates havoc in our marriage. The dreaded diagnosis we thought we’d never hear. A heartbreaking from the prospect of a prodigal far from God. Whatever the storm, we can draw strength from God’s presence. He is right there alongside us encouraging us each step of the way.

We may not feel like we’re doing a great job. We may feel beaten, shaken and unstable, but our God is rock solid and ready to come to our rescue – cheering us on with each step we take in courageous faith. Yes, storms challenge us to the core, but they deepen our relationship with God in a way we would have never imagined. And despite the puddles surrounding us, God’s smiling face brings joy to our weary souls. The One who holds the world in the palm of His hands is fully accessible to those who call upon His name.

“Father, how I love the way You encourage us especially when we feel like we are sinking into the deep well of the unexpected. You are our ever present help.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | May 30, 2024

Sin’s Sink Hole

“Good and upright is the Lord; therefore, He instructs sinners in His ways.  He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them His way.”  Psalm 25: 8&9 NIV

Another one!  Several years ago upon turning on the nightly news, we heard another report of a sinkhole.  Sinkholes are nothing to mess with.  Have the misfortune of finding your house within the sphere of a sink hole and it has been most likely gobbled up like a toppling monopoly piece.  A neighbor in its path – gone into the massive dark abyss as well.  Recently right here in my hometown, a sinkhole appeared on one of our major streets.  Passersby crept in their cars as schedules were delayed and plenty were late to start their workday wondering what happened there.

Isn’t sin much like a sinkhole?  A sinkhole started with a crack; a faulty supporting structure.  No one noticed it.  And if they did, likely nothing was done or repair was deferred for another day.  Slowly the crack grew until the breaking point.  Likely didn’t take much.  And, total ruination followed.  Similarly, a lack of God’s Word, communion with Him and accountability from other believers allow fissures of sin that can grow to damaging dimensions.  If another is in the vicinity of the sin, she possibly is affected or overtaken by the sin of choice, almost as though there was no choice at all.  And the passersby?  We’ll likely not know if they noticed the cracks in the road before the sinkhole appeared.  But they slowly pass by, recognizing the sin that entangled, maybe grumbling something to another out of the reach of the sinner’s ear and slowly move on to go about their day.

Praying we see the cracks in our road.  May our hearts be humbled to deal with the cracks as God reveals them to us.  May we immediately go to His throne room and repent, ask for forgiveness, receive His mercy and have our character refined so that our sin would not become a sinkhole and envelope those for whom we care.  May those who pass by be brave enough to show us the cracks in our walk with God and may we be open to their correction and see it as their love and concern for our wellbeing.

“Father, with gentle compassion, may I show the same care for my sisters in Christ that You show me.  Lord, may I love Your process of refinement as I seek to become more like Jesus in thought, deed and action.”

For His Glory,

Kathryn Hayman
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | May 29, 2024

Just Because

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights.” James 1:17a  (KJV)

I love giving gifts especially those given when there is no occasion to celebrate ‘just because.’   It won’t be the Christmas season, a birthday party, a wedding or baby shower, any hidden agendas, ulterior motives, or requests only expressions of love and encouragement.  Whether given to special friends, secret sisters, outreach, or someone hurting unexpected blessings communicate volumes without saying a word.    Actions silently verifying love, and the recipient is genuinely surprised and blessed.  Ever receive one of these gifts?  I have; just the other day!  Considering someone thought of me, purchased a gift, and made sure I received it intensely impacted my heart.

Every day, we receive similar gifts from our heavenly Father – unrequested – the ones freely given solely because He loves us and desires to make us happy by encouraging our heart.   His good and perfect gifts are all around  – answered prayer, a faithful spouse, friendships, a home, great children, health, something on sale you needed, or even a parking place at the mall!!  Great or small too many to count and given because He longs to bless us!!

There are all kinds of gifts.  Some reflect a selfish motive while others indicate only the most expensive is acceptable; however, genuine gifts always seek to bless not impress the other.  Being a blessing may just brighten someone’s day, place a smile on a saddened face, reach a soul for Christ, or encourage the forgotten, hurting person.   While contents are unimportant motives are always inspirational.

“Lord, please teach me to bless others ‘just because’ – reflecting the way you bless us!”

For His Glory

Patsy Sanders
TRBC Women’s Life

 

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