Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 16, 2022

Best Gift Ever

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16 (ESV)

Ever sneaked around looking for your Christmas present? Hate to admit it but I was a nosey little girl. Regardless of whether or not that package had my name on it or not, I was determined to shake it. I’ve even been known to unwrap and then rewrap and act totally surprised on Christmas Day. Have to admit the second surprise wasn’t as much fun, and the first surprise was overrated – I was the only one enjoying it. Sounds silly to recount my nosiness now. I’d much rather wait and experience the surprise on Christmas morning.

Ever searched through scripture seeking God’s amazing Christmas gift? His arrival was anticipated, His birth expected yet the way He came was totally surprising. No one had any idea Mary would be the virgin mother of Jesus, especially Joseph. Who would have thought that the babe would be born in a stable and sleep in a manger filled with straw? Not exactly a royal birth. And what about that starry sky that led others to Bethlehem….shepherds and Wise Men were clueless to where it would lead.

The gift, the promise, the presence of God living among us. Experiencing the good, the bad and yes, the ugly. Totally undeterred and unencumbered by temporary pleasures of this world. Jesus, the very Son of God came, healed, rescued, delivered and redeemed. Fulfilling every promise.

I remember as a child unwrapping the gift of the Savior. Sweetest moment ever – totally unsure of the significance this gift would make in my life. Tiny little mind couldn’t even grasp the magnitude of His presence living and breathing in me. Amazing how a simple prayer began an incredible work within me. While doubts and wonderings may have followed, Jesus never left me and kept reminding me of His ever presence. Always surprising me with His love and grace.

Sweet friend, if you have never opened His gift there is no better time than now. Can’t think of a better present this Christmas than to experience the fullness of God. When we simply confess our sins and believe He is the Christ child, God promises to welcome us as His own. We are His forever and life will never be the same. Difficulties will still emerge. Struggles will challenge us. But we can endure them all filled with His joy living and breathing within us – Best gift ever!

“Father, the depth of Your love cannot be measured. You gave Your only Son so we could experience eternity with You – what more could we ever want.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 15, 2022

Actions Speaker Louder Than Words

“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” I John 3:18 (NIV)

Remember the ‘ole saying, ‘actions speak louder than words?’ There are special people who fall into a silent category when actions do speak louder than words – caregivers. Any normal day would consist of routines, financial decisions, doctor office visits, tried patience, long lonely days, and physical and emotional exhaustion. Describe anyone you may know?

Ever consider Mary was Jesus’ caregiver during his short earthly existence? She was present at his birth, death, and multiple times in between. Do you think she became irritated, drained physically, and at times ready to throw in the towel? Of course she did, but she also knew it was all for a purpose – far exceeding her ability to comprehend.

Caregivers, you are not alone. For over eleven years, my personal life evolved around caring for my 95 year old mother. She was blind, confined to her bed or wheelchair, had severely impaired hearing, and dementia. When this journey began a really good friend offered an important word of wisdom: find humor. For example, on mother’s 95th birthday, she informed me she was 25 and sang happy birthday to herself. Laughing and having a good time there was no need to correct her – she was happy! I felt God kissing me on the cheek – His sweet way of encouraging my heart; He is with me every step of the way. God was with Mary every step of her journey, and Jesus became the Savior of the world.

Perhaps this Christmas bless an unnoticed caregiver – your actions will speak louder than any words – because all too often none are adequate. Blessings are adorned in varied ornate packaging – all they need are to be unwrapped!

“Dear Father, please bless those who unselfishly care for others and use me to bless them.”

For His Glory

Patsy Sanders
TRBC Women’s Life

 

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 14, 2022

Faithful Despite The Culture

“In the days of Herod, king of Judea, there was a priest named Zechariah, of the division of Abijah. And he had a wife from the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth. And they were both righteous before God, walking blamelessly in all the commandments and statutes of the Lord.”  Luke 1:5-6

The news has been shocking this Christmas season, hasn’t it? As we go about our business putting up our trees and decorating our homes, choosing gifts for loved ones, and making travel plans, laws are being passed that shake a fist in the face of God. Wrong is being called right, and right is being called wrong. Sometimes we despair of how to teach our children. How will they embrace the truth when wrong has become normalized, even celebrated? It would be so easy to bend to the culture and fit in.

We have strong examples in the scriptures. Let’s take a look at the culture at the time of Jesus’ birth, the first Christmas. God hadn’t spoken through the prophets for four hundred years. The Romans had forced their rule on the Jews. Major forces within the temple were distorting the scriptures. The Pharisees, who considered themselves above the others, drilled their attention on religious law, laying strict rules on the people that they couldn’t possibly keep. On the other hand, the Sadducees, though honoring the law, taught that angels, demons, heaven, and hell did not exist. Both groups were represented on the Sanhedrin, the Jewish tribunal. Satan was surely gloating. How were people to stay true to their God with all of that going on?

Now look at Zechariah and Elizabeth, the parents of John the Baptist. The scripture says they were righteous before God. Look at young Mary and her beloved Joseph, who each made a decision to allow the Lord to work in their lives according to His will, even if it would cause them pain and probably embarrassment. Although they were living in an evil culture, they did not bend. They were all righteous before God, worthy tools in His hand to play a part in the greatest event of history.

There is a spiritual war being fought in our culture, but we are promised to win it. In Matthew 16:18, Jesus himself said, “…I will build my church and the gates of hell will not prevail against it.” What a promise! We will not be stuck in this unholy situation forever. There is a war, and we’re on the winning side. So, dear saint, put on the whole armor of God and take your stand boldly, and having done all, stand firm.

Blessings to you, and Merry Christmas!

Dear Father, You know what we are up against in our human frailties. We pray for this nation, that You would turn it around, and we pray for ourselves, that You will give us strength to stand firm until the end.

For His Glory

Cherie Williams (www.CherieHarbridgeWilliams.com)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

 

 

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 12, 2022

Simply Believe

“But behold, you (Zacharias) will be mute and not able to speak until the day these things take place, because you did not believe my (Gabriel) words which will be fulfilled in their own time.”  Luke 1:20b(ESV)

A woman’s life was definitely different in Biblical times especially when it came to motherhood. If a woman couldn’t bear children, it was considered the most severe punishment. To experience the utter reproach of barrenness when others’ arms were full was excruciating.  But with God nothing is impossible. Throughout the pages of the Old Testament scriptures, we see how God divinely intervened in the lives of Sarah, Rachel and Hannah. Barren women who God graciously birthed forth nations and strong leaders at precisely the right moment.

Fast forward to Luke 1 and we witness the promise of a son to Zacharias and Elizabeth in their old age. Years of empty arms. Long days watching other children play.  Dreams shattered year after year. Prayers answered with a resounding no.

Despite their disappointments and the reproach Elizabeth experienced, Zacharias and his wife remained righteous – living rightly before God. Obeying His commands blamelessly without even a hint of the miracle awaiting them.

Sweet friends don’t you just love the way our God loves to fulfill the desires of our heart and unveil His plans even in the face of certain impossibilities? Putting His divine redemption story into motion, God sent Gabriel to visit Zacharias at the temple. A baby was on the way for these faithful seniors and the sudden, unexpected news from God caught Zacharias wondering. Logic ushered in doubts as disbelief questioned Gabriel’s words.

I’m sure Zacharias would have loved to shout to the rooftops, “I’m going to be a Daddy – we’re having a baby.”  I can envision him running down the streets, laughter and tears intermingled. But instead, his disbelief landed him speechless unable to celebrate fully the miracle unfolding before his eyes.

Wow haven’t we all landed there? We pray. We hope. We trust. And when God answers, we allow our human reasoning to convince us His plan is too good to be true. Our perceived reality trumps divine intervention, and we find ourselves afraid to believe God’s words. What a regret filled place to land. We cultivate limitless questions and scenarios rather than cling to His words.  We miss out on the joyful anticipation of watching Him work.

Blessed to be reminded of God’s opening of Zacharias’ mouth the very moment he wrote down the baby’s name – John. His son was the fulfillment of Isaiah’s prophecy -the one who would prepare the way for The Messiah. The one who would draw men’s hearts to God. The one who would be lifted up and chose to decrease in the presence of His Savior. Only God could conceive of such a marvelous plan.

Where do we land this holiday season? Are we filled with endless questions and doubts which rob us of the joy and peace found only in Jesus? Perhaps we find ourselves wondering in the silence – confused by our perceived reality of life. We, too, sweet friends can trust all of our impossibilities to the One who simply asks that we believe – He is the rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

“Father, You are the answer to all our questions – help us to simply believe and place our trust in You.”

For His Glory

 

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 8, 2022

Enjoying Family Time At The Holidays

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”  1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (ESV)

Sometimes dealing with family over the holidays can be stressful. So, what can we do to enjoy the holiday season? Here are a few ideas:

1)     Plan well. If we’re traveling to visit family or if they are traveling to us, make sure we know who is staying where. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries. Be fair, but be firm. Make sure it is clear what the expectations are. Will we need to bring an air mattress? Is there a “lights out” time? These may sound silly, but they can help avoid problems between us and our loved ones.

2)     Avoid controversial topics. I am not saying that we shouldn’t share our faith with the people we care about the most; however, this precious time together should be spent enjoying and sharing life. That doesn’t mean we can’t have heart-to-heart convos…quite the opposite; face-to-face is the best way to have those. We should choose our words carefully. Don’t debate. Don’t argue.

3)     Be flexible. Instead of wanting to do everything our way, allow the family to choose the restaurant, activity, or movie. Be forgiving. If our loved one gets irritable try not to take it personally. Remember, we may not get to spend much time with them. Focus on being together rather than what we are doing together.

 Even if we won’t get to see our family during these holidays, we can apply these tips for any family events or visits.

“Dear Lord, thank You for the opportunity to spend time with family. Please help my heart to stay in the right place during this special time of year.”

For His Glory

Laurel Shaler (www.drlaurelshaler.com)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 7, 2022

The Christmas Jammies

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future..” Jeremiah 29:11  (NIV)

When my oldest grandson was four years old, like other little boys his age, his big passion was superheroes. I  wanted to get him something for Christmas he would really like, so I looked at superhero merchandise. I found a set of pajamas with his favorite hero on the front, and a green cape behind, attached at the shoulders like any self-respecting superhero. On Christmas morning, he put on his new jammies and took me out in the backyard, into the Florida sunshine. I didn’t know his world was about to change. So out we went.

He looked up at me and asked, “Which way to Granny and Granddaddy’s house?”  I pointed in the general direction of his great-grandparents. Then my precious grandson took off running and tried to jump into the air.

The next moment is burned into my memory forever. I realized he thought the cape would allow him to fly, and he was going to visit Granny and Granddaddy. When he took that leap, it was as a sweet, innocent little boy expecting to truly fly…but reality came smacking him in the face and a more mature, wiser little boy fell back down. My heart broke as a look of disappointment and realization came across his face. Part of his childhood had just left him.

He took it like a trooper. He straightened himself up and brushed himself off. I hugged him, and we went back in the house together without a word.

Hasn’t that same thing happened to all of us, more than once? You took a ‘leap of faith’ that didn’t work out the way you expected and were forced to face an unpleasant reality. Maybe it was a failed relationship, a failed business, or a thwarted plan for the future. You may have wondered where God was.

I imagine that just as my heart grieved to see my grandson learn he couldn’t fly, the heart of God grieves to see us try something and experience failure. So He gave this promise: “I know the plans I have for you…plans to give you hope and future.” As redeemed children of the living God, we can go through failure, learn its valuable lesson, and go on with sure hope that He has a plan for our future. That was the reason God sent his Son, born in a manger, who died for us, so that we might live a joyous life of hope, even though we occasionally experience failure.

As you reflect on Him this Christmas season, remember to thank Him for that hope, that we can live flawed lives as humans, sometimes experiencing disappointment and failure, but knowing we have the ultimate victory!

“Father, this is the time of year we celebrate the shepherds and angels, Mary and Joseph, and the babe lying in the manger. We thank You for that incredible miracle, and for the hope we have in Jesus that touches each of our lives, personally and intimately.”

 For His Glory

 
Cherie Harbridge Williams
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 5, 2022

Resting In Your Promises

“Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful.” Hebrews 10:23 (ESV)

Gotta love a bargain, right? Yes, us girls want that discount. We love doorbusters, Black Friday sales and Cyber Monday. In person or online, we don’t want to miss out on the best deals. Probably the reason I rose at 4 am the day after a busy Thanksgiving. Eyes partially open, I joined my sister for one of those get in the line really early, get a special coupon and shop, shop , shop until you drop days.

Despite the chill in the air and the wait, we were excited to finally step inside the warm store and uncover our special coupon. A squeal from my sister’s lips revealed I received one of the top coupons. Like Santa on his sleigh, we dashed through the store gathering all our bargains. Our bags filled; I stepped up to the counter with a big smile gracing my face as I handed the clerk my coupon. Wow, did that smile ever fade so fast. The perceived grand coupon couldn’t be used on anything in my bag. After numerous attempts to redeem what had been given to me, we left the store disillusioned, disappointed, frustrated and yes angry.

Perhaps, you dear friend have experienced those same emotions over unfulfilled promises and misplaced truths. Ever so easy in our world to take truth at its face value, but you and I both know that’s a dangerous place to land. Empty words will always leave us doubting and longing for just an ounce of truth.

Promise keepers are few and far between, but I know of One who has never failed to deliver.  His words are faithful and true. He can be trusted. He is the only One who never leaves us disappointed, frustrated or disillusioned. When sin entered our world, He crafted the most perfect promise of redemption through His only Son.

Who is this Promise Keeper – our amazing God!!!

Before Jesus was born more than 300 prophecies were recorded in God’s word proclaiming Jesus’ birth, life, journey to the cross and His resurrection. Specific promises to His people outlined through the pages of His word. Absolute truths we can cling to. Promises we can count on. Declarations strategically placed in historical accounts leading up to Jesus’ birth. Revealed at precisely the right time – divinely orchestrated by our Heavenly Father.

Don’t know about you, but we desperately need truth in this world of misplaced promises. We need a  sure place to stand. We want a Promise Keeper who will do what He says He will do.

Sweet friends, we can trust God’s amazing redemption story unveiled from Genesis to Revelation – every promise in His word has been fulfilled or will be fulfilled for all eternity. No doubts – just complete trustworthiness from our faithful God – who could ask for more?

“Father, You are the perfect Promise Keeper. We can rest in your words and cling to Your promises.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 2, 2022

Without Compromise

“The land we (Joshua and Caleb) passed through and explored is an extremely good land.” Numbers 14:7b (HCSB)

Standing strong, firm and unmovable in the face of opposition requires incredible courage. Delivering a message that contradicts with the crowd in the midst of thousands requires godly boldness. Unwavering in the promises of our God even when others doubt requires holy trust.

Joshua and Caleb met the test without compromising, shrinking back or going with the crowd. When Moses sent them with eight leaders to check out the Promised Land, these two men saw victory where the others saw defeat. The team of ten brought back the fruit of the land proclaiming God’s truth – the land was flowing in abundance. But then the report split with eight leaders filled with fear and warnings to the two who envisioned God’s deliverance. Only Joshua and Caleb were willing to look beyond what they could see. If God’s word was truthful about the good of the land then He was fully capable of handling the bad.

Easy statement to write – hard to digest. How often do we trust God for the good, visible and easy truths, yet abandon His abilities in our challenges? The enemy seemed larger than life to these leaders and often our enemies overwhelm our vision to the point that we minimize the largeness of our God. We shout His praise and faithfulness in the good, but lag and doubt when the battle gets hard.

Glorifying God, even in the face of the enemy, standing firm and strong will be the defining moment in our lives. Let’s be the one who doesn’t cave or give in – let’s prove to our world that we will not waver – God is able to do more than we ever imagined.

“Father, help us to be women who display incredible courage, godly boldness and holy trust – glorifying Your name always!”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 1, 2022

Holiday Pause – Releasing Anxiety

“Let everything that has breath praise the Lord! Praise the Lord!” Psalm 150:6  ESV

The Christmas season has been called “the most wonderful time of the year,” for many reasons. It is certainly the most exciting. All the planning, shopping, and family get-togethers…putting up the decorations…Christmas programs, recitals, football games…we love it all. But along with all of that, have you noticed an increase in anxiety?

Anxiety can be caused by small things as well as large, accompanied by a sure knowledge that things are out of control. It could be something as large as the loss of a loved one, an overloaded schedule, financial stress, or something as small as thinking a gift you chose for someone wouldn’t be “good enough.” Almost everyone among us has some anxiety at some time.

When my kids were small I had a lesson in anxiety and fear. Our family was on a camping vacation in New Mexico, driving a car and pulling a pop-up tent camper. One evening as we looked for a place to spend the night, the only campground within driving distance was a remote location in the desert. When we arrived, we found that it was situated at the bottom of a large bowl-shaped crater.

I am normally a calm, happy person, but as the road wound its way down the slope of the crater, a feeling of anxiety came over me, as if something evil was near. My anxiety increased as the evening wore on. We unloaded the car, and my husband put up the camper. As I was cooking supper, the children wanted to play on the boulders that were piled against the walls of the crater. I was terrified for them, sure that they would slip and fall to their deaths. But my husband had no such fear. He gave them permission to play on the rocks.

As it turned out, they didn’t fall to their deaths, thank God, but after we went to bed that night a heavy wind came up and shook the camper…hard. The shaking continued for a long time. In my anxiety, I imagined the devil himself was shaking the camper. My fear grew. Then that still, small voice spoke to me and said, “Praise the Lord.”

What? It came again, “Praise the Lord.”

In obedience, I began to praise the Lord. I started with hesitation, nearly unable to think straight. But as I continued my praise, my head cleared, the wind actually stopped, and soon I was praising God joyfully. What a miracle! It was a lesson I’ll never forget: anxiety and fear do not coexist with praise.

Dear friend, whatever the reason for your anxiety, the lesson I learned back then still holds true today. Praise the Lord! Psalm 150 is a good place for you to begin your praise. Push the pause button on the holiday rush and spend some quality time with the lover of your soul. And have a Merry Christmas!

“Dear Lord, we pause in the middle of the Christmas rush to remember that You came to earth, born as a child in a manger, to die for our salvation. We praise You for \Your great faithfulness, and ask that You would replace our anxiety with the joyful hope we have in You.”

 For His Glory

 Cherie Harbridge Williams
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 29, 2022

True Equity

Say among the nations, “The Lord reigns. The world is firmly established, it cannot be moved; He will judge the peoples with equity.”  Psalm 96:10

We hear a lot about “equity” these days. It’s a word that is thrown around a lot in culture, business, even church. But I’m not sure that everyone who jumps on the equity bandwagon truly understands the concept—it certainly is not a synonym for “equality” upon which freedom is based. And the terms are quite conflated in use. Simply put, “equality” means equal opportunity and “equity” connotes equal outcomes.

Humanly speaking, equity is not possible when freedom and choice exist. If you give 10 children $10 each, every one of those kids will likely choose to do something different with the money. Some will save (with dissimilar goals in mind); one may buy some candy; one may spend some and save some; one may buy a single toy; another may go to the dollar store to get as many random items as possible with the full sum, just to spend it all. All 10 kids had equal opportunity, but the likelihood of equal outcome is improbable. Now, if you give that same $10 to those same 10 kids and dictate to them exactly what to do (e.g., save $5 and buy a specific $5 item), this is equity: equal outcomes by force or demand.*

But with God, dear friend, there is equity in its truest, unadulterated form. He gives us the freedom to choose in this life—equal opportunity—but there will be equal outcomes. At the end of our lives, He will judge us with equity (Psalm 96:10; 98:7-9).

Each and every one of us starts at the same place: We are born into this world separated from God, sinners who fall short of His glory (Romans 3:23). Because God is perfectly holy and righteous, He requires perfect holiness and righteousness of us (Leviticus 19:2; I Peter 1:16). And no matter how hard we try to check off religious boxes or ensure our “do good” list is longer than our “do bad” list, we cannot achieve sufficient righteousness (i.e., perfection) on our own. If we breathe our last in this state, having chosen to make every effort to redeem and save ourselves, there will be equity—equality of outcome. One little lie or a lifetime of murdering. Doesn’t matter. One outcome awaits: eternal pain, sorrow, and isolation (hell).

But there is another equitable outcome provided by our righteous and holy God: heaven—an eternity in His presence. See, regardless of the life you’ve lived up to this point (liar or murderer), the penalty for your sin has been paid, a way of reconciliation with God made. Jesus lived the perfect life we cannot, died to take on the wrath we deserve, and then rose again to conquer sin and death. By accepting this gift of grace through faith, Jesus exchanges our unrighteousness for His righteousness—we are redeemed, deemed perfect in the eyes of God through Jesus. Regardless of what we’ve done in the past, we can be forgiven and free to turn our lives around, loving God and others in response to His love for us. And it is this choice, friend, that brings eternal peace and joy.

Regardless of where you started in life or where you’ve been, there is spiritual equity. But unlike the concept of human equity, there is no demand, no forcing of outcomes. You have total freedom to choose your eternity: heaven or hell. And if you haven’t made your choice yet, won’t you accept the gift of salvation in Jesus today and solidify your eternal outcome?

God, You are holy, righteous, sovereign—I am not. Thank You for making a way for me, for saving me and reconciling me to Yourself through Jesus.

For His Glory

 

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

 

*Don’t misunderstand, I realize there are nuances in this discussion, but for the purposes of this spiritual illustration, the above basics will suffice.

 

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