Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | October 11, 2022

The Purge

“I pray that out of His glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. “ Ephesians 3:16-17

This is going to sound strange, but I absolutely love to de-clutter, purge and deep clean. Maybe that doesn’t sound too odd to you…but I really, really love doing that in other people’s homes. Ask my friend, Wendy. It was sheer bliss for me to work alongside her for 10 hours as we went through every kitchen cabinet—emptying, purging, cleaning, and reorganizing. Ahhhh.

When our house is cleaned out and decluttered, “home” is so much more comfortable. We have peace, contentment, and joy. Plus, it’s so much easier to keep tidy—when junk is dropped on the floor or shoved in a corner, it stands out like a sore thumb, so we take care of it. (As opposed to that same item simply being added to an existing pile…I mean, at that point, what’s the difference between a two-foot stack and a three-foot stack?)

What’s the spiritual lesson here? At salvation (the moment we recognize ourselves as sinners and accept the free gift of grace from Jesus Christ), a believer becomes indwelt with the Holy Spirit—God lives in us! Amazing! He abides in us, giving us comfort, discernment, direction, and conviction. But how comfortable and at home is He?

At salvation, we are made new, transformed—we move from death to life, darkness to light. But, because we still live in our earth-bound fallen bodies, we have to do a little “housework” when it comes to our new life and walking in obedience to the Lord. So, whether you gave your life to Christ 50 years ago or yesterday, let’s talk about doing some soul-level purging.

Have we cleaned out the clutter of the world from our lives—stuff that doesn’t glorify God, as well as the idols we prioritize over Him? Is his voice of conviction drowned out by the clamor of culture? Have we swept every corner of our hearts clean, so that He can fill that space with His residency? Or are there closed doors, rooms that we’ve padlocked, piled high with old, comfortable habits, hidden lusts, or cherished sins?

Friend, open up those rooms! Let the Holy Spirit do some serious housecleaning. Just as a clutter-free home is easier to keep tidy, so is our soul. The unrighteous thoughts, words, and actions of the old self are easier to spot against the backdrop of a pure Holy Spirit controlled space. And you will be quicker to sweep them out.

Side note: I can assure you that if you do the work to purge your heart of sin and unrighteousness—which is a good thing—but you do not surrender to the Holy Spirit and give Him total access to every nook and cranny, worldly clutter will quickly return. In fact, all you’re doing is making room for greater sin, more idols, and bigger lusts. By the way, the enemy of your soul loves a nice clutter-free space to abide in as well (Matthew 12:43-45). Your purged home must be filled with the Holy Spirit and that only happens when you give your life to Jesus.

If you have not done so, give your life to Jesus today. Through His life, death, and resurrection, He made a way of reconciliation for you with God. No work on your part required! And you get God living in you, through the Holy Spirit to give you the strength and power to live out your soul-transformation and glorify God. If you are already a Christian, how “at home” is the Holy Spirit in you? Is it time for a good deep-cleaning heart purge? Clean out the clutter you’re still holding onto. Surrender and submit to the Holy Spirit, so He can make Himself at home…and you can experience the peace, contentment, and joy He longs to give you.

“Lord, I surrender to You—create in me a pure heart (Psalm 51:10), so that I can walk according to Your Word and Your will.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | October 7, 2022

Seasons Change

“But I am like an olive tree flourishing in the house of God; I trust in God’s unfailing love for ever and ever.” – Psalm 52:8

“Though the seasons change, your love remains.”  As the worship band repeated this refrain, God used these words to remind me how He had loved us from one season to the next. Not just in the good times, but through some really difficult seasons.  Through the fall… when our hopes and dreams fell like leaves from the trees and were blown away by the wind. His love remained. Through the winter…when prayers seemed to go unanswered, and the world felt cold and desolate. His love remained. In the spring…when the snow melted and beauty sprang from the ground.  His love remained. In the summer…when change was inevitable, and we were filled with apprehension. His love remained.

Slowly, these truths are penetrating my heart…the dreams that died and were blown away by the wind, were never God’s dreams for us. The time of seemingly unanswered prayers taught us to patiently rest in Him. Although we couldn’t see what God was doing, He was working behind the scenes. The blessings that bloomed in the spring, were planted by Him even before the cold winter began.  The plans He has for us, although sometimes scary and difficult, are always good. Good plans, wrapped in His love. His love remains.

When you find yourself in a difficult season, trust His love. When you can’t see what He is doing, trust that He is at work. For your good, and His glory. In every season, know that He loves you…He sees you…and, He has a plan for you. His love remains.

“Lord, help us to trust in your unfailing love in all good times and hard times. You are always at work behind the scenes. You promise never to leave us or forsake us.”

 

For His Glory,

Ann Skalaski
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | October 6, 2022

We Will Splash Again

“How happy are those whose strength comes from you, who are eager to make the pilgrimage to Mount Zion. As they pass through the dry valley of Baca, it becomes a place of springs; the autumn rain fills it with pools.”  Psalm 84:5-7 (GNT)

Psalm 84 was written for the people of Israel to sing as they made their annual pilgrimage to the temple for worship, but it is also a psalm for us in the 21st century, whose strength comes from God, who are eager to worship Him.

Many scholars believe that the Valley of Baca was an actual place travelers passed through on the way to Jerusalem. It was renamed at some point in antiquity, so opinions differ about which valley it was. But the exact location doesn’t matter as much as the kind of place it was. They agree that it would have been a dry place, dusty, probably rocky, and difficult to traverse.

Haven’t you passed through that dry valley—probably more than once in your life? Maybe you’re in that valley right now. It could be illness, loss of income, loss of a relationship, a burden for an unsaved loved one, an obstacle in your path that came out of nowhere, or a crisis of faith. It could even be a natural disaster or war. You’re not the only one. Look around you. Watch the evening news. There are many people in that valley of Baca right now. In fact, it’s getting pretty crowded.

The good news is that there is solid and confident hope for those of us in the family of faith! The psalmist says that as you keep going, as you rely on God for strength, the dry valley eventually becomes a place of springs, and the rain fills it with pools. Can’t you imagine the joy of a weary traveler coming off a hard, dirty hike through the rocky wilderness and finding refreshing water? Can’t you imagine her throwing down her backpack and rushing toward those pools? As God’s children, we will come out of that dry valley, and we will splash again!

So keep your eyes on Him, and happy splashing!

“Father, even though we would prefer to avoid the dry valleys, we thank You for walking with us and strengthening us through them. Thank You for the promise that as we keep our hearts set on You, the dry valleys will become places of springs and pools, and we will see You.

 

For His Glory

Cherie Harbridge Williams
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | October 5, 2022

Redeeming Hope

“Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity and purify unto Himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.”   (Titus 2:14, KJV)

Naomi’s husband had died leaving her with two sons. The sons married but in time they died. Leaving the two wives, Ruth and Orpah behind. Their land had been devastated by a famine in Moab. Naomi had nothing left. Hearing that there was bread in Israel, she decided to go back home – to Bethlehem.

In that culture and time, women had no voice or value unless they were married. Naomi encouraged Ruth and Orpah to stay in Moab and remarry. Orpah agreed but Ruth insisted on staying with Naomi.

The story then follows the lives of two widows trying to rebuild their lives after a devastating season of brokenness. Naomi even tells her friends when she returns home to call her Mara because she felt so bitter about what life had taken from her.

Even though she was a widow herself, Ruth decides to go out and look for ways to bring in food for her and Naomi. In fact, it’s her kindness towards her mother-in-law that catches the eye of Boaz. He encourages her to glean only in his fields and advises his men to not bother her.

Ruth following Naomi’s guidance goes to the threshing floor and lays at Boaz’s feet. Some might think this was a provocative gesture. But she was saying to Boaz, “I respect you, I trust you, and I put my fate in your hands.”

According to the laws found in the Pentateuch, a kinsman-redeemer is a male relative who had the responsibility to act for a relative who was in trouble, danger, or need of vindication.

Boaz was willing to marry her and redeem her life but there was another male relative that was closer. He had to talk with that man first. He asked her to wait. The other male relative doesn’t want to redeem her, so Ruth and Boaz marry.  In time they have a child, Obed – making them the great-grandparents to King David. Boaz purchases back the land Naomi had to sell – redeeming her life as well.

Has life taken things from you that you want back but you don’t have a close relative to step in and help?

Dear friend we have a kinsman redeemer who can

  • rescue us (Gen. 48:16, Exodus 6:6)
  • avenge the wrongs done to us (Numbers 35:9-34)
  • redeem what’s been taken from us (Lev. 25:47-55 & 27: 9-25)

Jesus can redeem it all. Filling our lives with hope in such a way that we find passion for living again.

We just need to lay it at his feet, like Ruth did.

“Father, we thank You for being our kinsman-redeemer. You know the wounds that break our hearts today. Help us to trust You and put our fate in Your hands.”

For His Glory

Laura Holmes    (www.ephraimministries.org)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

 

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | October 4, 2022

How Dare You?

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32

The Bible says a lot about forgiveness. Throughout the New Testament, Jesus and the Epistle writers command believers to forgive. But often, we believe that “forgiving” equates with “condoning”—and that forgiveness negates the associated pain of the wrong. But that’s not the case.

The thing is, forgiveness is a choice—not a feeling. And true forgiveness, although it is a gift to the other person, frees our own soul from the destructive burden of bitterness and anger.

About this time several years ago, a virtual bomb was dropped in my life—a revelation of truth that devastated my very soul. I was more hurt and angrier than I thought possible. And no one would have faulted me for wrapping a firm grip around bitterness, never to let go.

Instead, within a matter of hours—in the midst of the shock, horror, pain, and disbelief—I did something unexpected. I chose to forgive.

Please know this was not of my own power—it was not humanly possible. It was the Holy Spirit, living in me, that gave me the supernatural ability to make that decision. In the middle of my pain, He convicted my spirit with five simple words that still burn within today: “How dare you not forgive?”

See, my life is daily filled with sin. I am a sinner. But Jesus stretched out His arms on that cross to pay the penalty I owe. Yesterday’s, today’s, and tomorrow’s sins are all forgiven—thrown into the sea (Micah7:19) and removed from us as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12). We who accept the precious gift of salvation are made white as snow even though our sins are as scarlet (Isaiah 1:18).

When you consider people in your life who have wronged you, you may think, “But that person’s sin is way worse than mine—they hurt me!” But in God’s economy, every sin is an imperfection that stains the perfect righteousness required by a perfect God. And every sin hurts Him too.

We are forgiven. Because of what Jesus accomplished—His pain and suffering on our behalf, His amazing mercy and grace—how can we not extend that same grace, mercy, and forgiveness to another?

Because we are forgiven through Christ, let’s choose to be forgiving through Christ.

“Lord, thank You for forgiving me and making me righteous in God’s eyes. Because of Your grace, empower me to choose forgiveness daily.”

 

For His Glory,

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | September 28, 2022

Backseat Driver

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”   (Proverbs 3:5-6, ESV)

 “What are you doing? Do you see what’s happening?”

Just some of the distressed pleas poured out of my heart to the Father, as I try to desperately understand His continued silence in one area of my life. I can see His hand moving in so many things I pray about, but this one burden remains. Taunting doubts try to creep in “He’s ignoring you.”

I recently had to drive my parents somewhere. We were on a two-lane highway and an oncoming truck veered over across the double lines. I saw the vehicle and started getting over onto the shoulder of the road to avoid a head on collision. My dad was in the passenger’s seat. He saw the truck and knew exactly what I was doing. But my mom was in the back seat. Her perspective was different. She couldn’t understand why I was driving off the road. A plethora of emotions ran through us all.

My dad was quick to defend me. Bringing attention to the fact that I was paying attention and responded as quickly as I did to avoid what could have been a fatal accident.

I’ve been driving for over thirty-five years and consider myself a good driver. However, once I had explained my actions to my mom it made me stop and ponder.

“Is that what I’m doing to the Holy Spirit? Am I being a back seat driver?”

I could see what was coming toward us as the driver. But in the back seat she couldn’t. I needed her to trust that I was watching out for her and to relax for the rest of the drive.

When we’re going through a painful season in life – our perspective – plays a huge role. Our feelings (our understanding) can’t be the driver.

If we’re allowing the Holy Spirit to have total control and “drive” the situation – that means we should trust that He sees everything. He sees the dangers all around us. He has a reason why He sometimes guides us to move this way or that. He puts the brakes on a situation when we’re wanting to mash the gas. He yields when our hearts cry out “please answer this prayer now.”

When my heart is heavy with unanswered prayers, I need to take that hurt and lay it at His feet daily – trusting that He sees what I do not. Otherwise, anxiety will overwhelm me into a frantic “back seat driver.”

God continually shows me a beautiful view from the backseat. I need only to sit back and enjoy it.

“Father teach us to trust that You see everything happening in our lives. Our perspective is different from Yours. You are not asleep at the wheel.”

 For His Glory,

Laura Holmes (www.ephraimministries.org)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | September 27, 2022

Cheer Squad

“Just so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance.”  Luke 15:7

Were any of you cheerleaders? I was. Just for one year—during my sophomore year in high school. I must say, it was really fun. Shouting rhyming cheers to choreographed moves during crisp, cool Friday night football games…starting chants courtside for the bleachers packed with basketball fans…pounding the mat to support the wrestlers as they grappled for victory. We kept an eye on the game, always yelling to encourage our team. And when there was a score, we’d go crazy—leaping into a herkie, spread eagle, or tuck jump—while we got the crowd to join together in a victory cheer.

That was a long time ago, and I don’t think about it much. But it all came back to me as I studied the first few chapters of Ephesians. You may be thinking, “Cheerleaders in the First Century Church?” Let me explain.

Since God created the angels, they have been around His thrown giving Him glory—glorifying God is one of their main purposes. They circle the Lord’s throne and proclaim His holiness (Isaiah 6:2-3). Angels know God’s sovereignty and power. They are in awe of His creation—they’ve seen it firsthand.

But angels are not omniscient or omnipresent—they only know what has happened and what is happening as they observe it. And although throughout history, as written in the Old Testament, the Lord prophesied about a coming Savior, His death, and His victory, you can just imagine the level of drama that unfolded in front of the angels on Calvary (I picture them howling in despair). But then, three days later, you can almost hear the roar of joy at the Resurrection. They no doubt shouted from every corner of heaven, “Victory! Victory!”

As Paul writes to the Ephesians and other First Century churches, he reveals to these new believers the mysteries of God. In other words, Truths that the OT prophets wrote about but couldn’t comprehend—not until Christ came, died, and ascended, sending the Holy Spirit for understanding (Ephesians 3:10; Colossians 15:51; Colossians 1:27; 1 Timothy 3:16). And the Apostles made these Truths known to the early Christians (and to us). The cool thing is that the angels also came to an understanding of these mysteries right alongside the Church! (Can’t you just see them high-fiving and cheering with each profound Truth?)

And the most Amazing Truth of all, the Gospel of Grace—salvation through faith in Jesus Christ, not by works or the law—was also unveiled to the angels in real time. No doubt, this was like your team winning the world (no, UNIVERSE) championship! The cheers, the jumps, the shouts and hugs! But there’s more (1 Peter 1:12)! The Bible also says that angels rejoice over each sinner who repents and surrenders to Jesus (Luke 15:7-10).

Think about that. When saved, each and every person has myriads of myriads of angels going ballistic—doing angel herkies, shouting, blowing trumpets, probably doing some serious gymnastic moves. An explosion of celebration because it’s the most important event of a person’s existence. So, if you haven’t yet experienced the life-altering transformation of salvation, why not make today the day…your cheer squad is watching intently, waiting to shout over you with unabashed joy.

“Lord, thank You for Your amazing grace, for reconciling us to Yourself through Christ—it is the Ultimate Victory.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | September 26, 2022

When “Off” Defines Us

“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” Psalm 16:11 (ESV)

Who doesn’t love a weekend getaway? The end of a crazy work week welcomes the release of chores and normal routines in exchange for a road trip. And that’s exactly what we did last weekend. Having a change of scenery, splurging on trip food and visiting friends is exactly what we need to recharge our souls. Only problem is – it’s just a weekend trip. The clock ticks fast and before we know it we are headed home. As soon as I opened the door to our house, I was reminded there was a lot I needed to do before Monday morning.

Keeping it real here but starting my week trying to cram and catch up on my weekend list never serves me well. My whole week has felt “off.”  Attempting to recover from just a few days away from home landed me scrambling to stay on top of my schedule. And to add to the list our air conditioning went out Monday as the last days of Summer roared in the upper 80s. Counting down the days until Friday so I can regroup and recoup my “off.” Interesting how being “off” has affected my entire week.

Ever felt “off” not because of a weekend getaway but because of a prolonged getaway from God? Yes, we’ve all probably landed there – moments when we simply excused away our relationship with Him. Busy schedules, disappointments, frustrations, distractions, false truths, unconfessed sin, doubts, bored with our routine – an endless list of ways we get “off” track. Reality is, sometimes we don’t even notice we are out of sync with God until desperation sends us to our knees.

Sweet friends even a slight sense of being “off” in our relationship with God is a wake-up call we should never ignore. It’s those little compromises that land us further away from Him than we ever imagined.

What does “off” look like:

  • Lack of hunger/passion for God’s word
  • No desire to share the gospel
  • Zeroed in on our will vs. God’s will
  • Ignoring self-examination
  • Fellowship with other believers is not important
  • Communing with God in prayer is no longer a priority
  • Settling for the old us vs welcoming God’s transformation

I think we all get the picture….having a heart not centered on the things of God throws us off balance. We easily find ourselves reacting, speaking and thinking in ways that don’t glorify God. And the longer we do life in this mode, the more we miss out on God’s best.

Love the way our God beckons and draws us back into an intimate personal relationship with Him. No matter where we land now, God’s desire is for us to get back on track and enjoy truth satisfaction and joy found only in Him. So if we find ourselves a little “off” right now let’s re-align our hearts with His and reap the blessings of walking daily in His footsteps. It’s a decision we will never regret.

“Father, thank You for welcoming us back with open arms – thank You for your amazing grace that covers all our “off” moments as You patiently wait for our return.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | September 23, 2022

Trusting During The Fog

“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” Hebrews 11:1 (NIV)

One of the things I loved the most about living on the mountain is when I drove down to the city; I saw the most magnificent scenery. The Blue Ridge Mountains served as the backdrop to all that lies at the feet of them, including the trees, and – let me not forget to mention, the most beautiful sunsets!

One morning, the fog was so dense that there was very little visibility. I couldn’t even see the building I worked in until I was a couple hundred feet away. Looking out from the balcony, I tried to see the mountains. I was certain, 100% sure that they were exactly where I had seen them over and over again before, but I couldn’t see them. I just had to trust that I knew where they were, and keep on believing that once the fog dissipated, I would be able to see them.

Isn’t this how it happens in life, when our vision gets so cloudy because of the “disturbances” we walk through? Our minds get so crowded with the “fog” of worry, sadness, anxiety, anticipation, agony, sorrow, disappointment, and so many others, that we cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel. Many times, we can’t even feel that God is right there with us. During those times when the fog of life is so dense, all we can do is TRUST that it will dissipate, that it will melt in the warmth of the sun and show us all those things which our eyes could not see while it was hovering over the path.

“Dear Lord, God Almighty, King of Heaven, we yield our worries to You today. Whatever it is that is clouding our vision and keeping us from seeing that You are there, please remove it, Lord, and let us see You, even through the fog.”

For His Glory

Luska Natali
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | September 22, 2022

Cats or Daughters

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding. Acknowledge him in all your ways, and he will make your paths straight.”  Proverbs 3:5-6  (NET)

We inherited a long-haired orange tabby cat from the previous owner of our house, who abandoned her when he moved out. Although we didn’t want the responsibility of a pet, there she was, and we couldn’t let her starve. That was five years ago, and Buttercup is still hanging around. Actually, she thinks she owns us.

She is happiest outside where she can scratch trees and roam where she pleases. She also prefers to eat her food outside on the back deck, so like inexperienced fools, we were putting her food dish out for her. Then we had neighborhood dogs coming onto the deck, followed later by a skunk and a big, aggressive raccoon. Our next-door neighbor also says there was a bear “as big as a Volkswagen” wandering through her yard recently, which means he was likely in our yard, too. I hope she was exaggerating his size. Either way, putting cat food outside in a dish is obviously a bad idea, a magnet for all kinds of critters.

Now we are trying to get Buttercup to come into the laundry room to eat, but she refuses until she is practically starving. She doesn’t understand why we have suddenly changed her routine. She is clearly irritated and resisting as hard as she can. But if we give into her and put her food outside where she likes it, animals of all descriptions will be on our back deck.

Buttercup is relying on her own understanding. She doesn’t know what we know, because she isn’t capable of reasoning as we do. We know there are dangers she doesn’t comprehend.

Don’t we act the same way when God changes our circumstances, or when He requires us to take on a new, unwelcomed responsibility? We don’t understand His ways, which are higher than our ways. Our limited human brains can’t comprehend what He knows. We have a choice. We can act like Buttercup and fight the change, or we can trust Him and submit to His will like the daughters we are.

Isn’t our best, wisest option to follow His leading?

“Father, when the unpleasant changes come in our lives, remind us of who You are and who we are. Help us to trust you more perfectly and acknowledge You in all our ways.”

For His Glory

Cherie Harbridge Williams
TRBC Women’s Life

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