Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 21, 2022

Two Powerful Words

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10(NIV)

What currently has you crippled with fear? Think hard and come up with just one thing right now. Fear has a way of creeping into our lives without us even realizing it many times. It could be fear of rejection, job loss, or failing a class – think about what it is in your life. Take a few minutes to write down what you are currently battling on a piece of paper.

Take the next few minutes and think about what would happen if that fear were to become reality. Write it down.

Now grab a red marker and as big as you can write BUT GOD to cover most of what you wrote. Stop and take a look at it again, focus on the words written with red marker over the top BUT GOD. What are you feeling, thinking?

Do you see how God can cover that fear? How would God change things? What would he provide as answers for you? Are you willing to hand it over to him and let him take that weight off of your shoulders and let him carry that burden?

Maybe giving it to him isn’t going to solve everything right at this moment. But God can give you the strength to get through it. He can carry you and give you the wisdom and discernment to move forward. He wants us to hold out our hand so he can grab ahold of it and help us move forward.

But God….two three letter, powerful words. Rest in his righteous hand. Feel his strength rush through you. Let him take the lead.

“Father, take my hand and let me feel your power rush through me. Let me feel your strength take over. I want to feel your presence Lord.”

For His Glory

Debbie Struble
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 20, 2022

Enjoy The Lemons

“Count it all joy my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.  And let steadfastness have its full effect that you may be perfect and complete lacking in nothing.” (James 1:2-4, ESV)

Have you ever thought about what the “it” is that James is referring to? What exactly are we supposed to count as joy?

When I go through a hard season in life – it usually results in:

  • Sleepless nights
  • Anxiety
  • Inability to concentrate
  • Lots of tears
  • Pain

At first glance, nothing about these things stirs up any feelings of joy.

I was with some ladies discussing our thoughts on a Bible study we were doing on James. We were dissecting today’s verse, when one of the ladies made this statement –

“When life gives you lemons, enjoy the lemons.”

Not the usual sentiment we often hear, is it?

About twenty years ago, I was battling some severe health issues and I started a mission to eat healthier. I also started drinking lots of lemon water.

While lemons may be bitter at first taste – they have numerous health benefits. Did you know that lemons detoxify your liver? They prevent kidney stones.  Lemons are a great source of vitamin C and allow your body to heal naturally.

While the initial taste of a lemon may be bitter – the potential health benefits far outweigh the unpleasantness.

I think that is what James is trying to teach us in today’s verse.

A bitter season received with unbelief and grumbling, can result in sleepless nights, producing bitterness and discouragement. But if we respond with faith (trusting that God is in control) that season can become an opportunity for spiritual growth. Instead of filling our sleepless nights with worry or dulling it with TV/video games – if we allow these things – the “it” that are the results of trials and tests – can bring about a healing in us. For example, a sleepless night can become a night of studying the Word and praying – resulting in a deeper walk with the Lord. And ultimately less anxiety and more peace.

Even though we laughed at my friend when she made that statement, she was right – we should “enjoy the lemons” that God sometimes allows life to throw at us. Trials are inevitable. How we respond to them is our choice.

Just like the lemons – if we allow the Holy Spirit to work -He can produce a detoxification and clean out all the stuff in us that is not of God. When our faith is tested through the bitter experiences of life, the Holy Spirit can enable us to grow.

“Father the only way we can find joy in trials is by putting our Hope in you. Help us to count it all joy when life throws us lemons. Use these trials to remove anything in us that is not of you.”

For His Glory,

Laura Holmes (www.ephraimministries.org)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 19, 2022

Casual Friday

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:2

As I was throwing on my sweats and a t-shirt for the 623rd day in a row working from home this morning, my mind flashed back to a thing many of you may never have heard of: Casual Friday. It was instituted probably in the early 90s (maybe the late 80s?), and it was a concession on the part of employers to relax the wardrobe rules of the business for the last day of the workweek. For some companies, it meant women could wear slacks (versus a dress/skirt) and men could wear khakis and a polo shirt or button down. Other businesses—the forward-thinking ones—actually allowed jeans. It was quite shocking at the time. I remember going up the elevator at my downtown Richmond office building where there were several financial firms. The big joke with them was that on Casual Friday they got to wear the tie of their choice. (There’s something to be said for that workplace standard, but that’s another conversation for another time.)

Anyway, this mental trip through the past got me thinking about the spiritual parallel to Casual Friday.

See, upon becoming believers, we are made new creations—the old passes away (2 Corinthians 5:17). We’re no longer slaves to sin, but we become servants of the Lord (Romans 6:6; Colossians 3:23-24). Once saved, we are called to be holy, as He is holy (1 Peter 1:15-16), representing the Kingdom to which we are now citizens (Philippians 3:20). We are to hold up every thought, word, and action to the Truth of the Bible. We have a new standard by which to live.

If you’re a Christian, there may be quite a contrast between your standards before and after surrendering to Jesus. (There sure is for me.) And, although the above-noted attributes are to be our benchmark, we are all still living in a fallen body and walking through a fallen world. So, we’re not going to always be holy…but we need to always be walking in the direction of holiness and obedience.

So, where does the whole “Casual Friday” thing come in? Well, just as employers loosened their standards for workwear once a week, we must ask ourselves a similar question: Are there days or circumstances where we choose to talk or act below the standard that has been set for us in God’s Word? Maybe it’s around the conference table (real or virtual), when the blue jokes start flying—and you laugh right along. Perhaps, when Friday night rolls around, you go out for a few too many drinks with the girls (or guys). It could be the Netflix or HBO show you binge watch over the weekend—you know, the one with all that gratuitous casual sex. You get the point.

Friend, God has not allowed for Casual Friday—or any other casual day of the week. He does not wink at sin, no matter how “small” we think it is. (He doesn’t say, “Hey, that’s cool to sleep with your boyfriend—I know you’re in love.” Sorry, nope.) God’s standard is non-adjustable and non-negotiable, regardless of how “cultural irrelevant you think it is.

Again, I’m not saying we won’t sin. We will. But the longer we walk with the Lord, the quicker we’ll recognize that sin, repent, and keep going in the right direction. And don’t misunderstand—we don’t maintain God’s standards to keep on His good side or check off the right boxes. We keep God’s standards because we love Him. And bringing Him joy is our joy.

“Thank you, Lord, for Your standards, clearly spoken in Your Word, and the true freedom it brings.”

 

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 18, 2022

Why Baby Steps Really Matter

“Blessed be the Lord! For He has heard the voice of my pleas for mercy.” Psalm 28:6 (ESV)

I remember the exact moment he took his first steps. We were ringing in the new year when my six month old bundle of joy (Chris) decided to venture across the room. My earth shattering scream of excitement sent him tumbling to the floor. Thankful for soft landings. No one expected him to walk so soon; after all, he never learned to crawl.  And because of Chris’ chunkiness, his journey to walking ended in lots of tumbles, bruises, bumps and trips to the Emergency Room. Those little legs weren’t ready, but Chris was determined. Simply putting one foot in front of the other, he gradually got stronger, braver and moved faster. Every little step really does matter even if we wobble.

Ever found yourself attempting to get back up – to recover after a fall? Perhaps it was a long journey away from God landing us in the pig pen with the prodigal.  Maybe it was a slow leak of character resulting in costly, unwise decisions. Could it be that a crisis reverted us back to lesser gods (alcohol, addiction, immorality, etc.) which never served us well?

Regardless of why or where we landed, releasing the comfort of staying down positions us to get stronger and braver. Easier said than done my sweet friend. Satan loves to whisper shame, failure, and regret when we can’t even find the strength to crawl. And if we entertain his voice, we will zero in on the tumble versus looking up for recovery.

Nothing sounds sweeter to our God than genuine words of confession and repentance. A broken spirit and sorrow-filled heart ushers us into the presence of our healing and restoring God (Psalm 51:17). He stands with open arms waiting for us to return and cover us with His loving kindness, mercy and grace.  And the best part, God doesn’t leave us to fight this battle alone. Just when we thought we couldn’t take another step, God strengthens our weary souls to keep moving forward. Empowered by His might, we transition from defeat to victory one step at a time.

For those who may be attempting recovery never forget

  • God is patiently waiting for your return
  • God’s love for you is non-negotiable
  • God already knows where you’ve been
  • God will never give up on you

For those who are watching, waiting and praying for one who has fallen:

  • Praying God’s word lightens and transforms our agenda
  • Resist shock when steps forward revert to steps backward
  • Listen with an open, humble heart
  • Recognize we all tumble along the way
  • Exercise tough love bathed in prayer
  • Never forget the significance of even wobbly steps

 

Despite our determination to recover and/or respond well, we all need God. Life gets messy, we get messy but God specializes in transforming our ugly into glorious beauty.

“Father, give us the courage to take intentional steps back to You. And if we’re the one waiting for those we love to run back in your arms, help us to lean into Your strength and never give up.”

 

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 15, 2022

For Those Waiting…

“So he got up and went to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.” Luke 15:20 (NIV)

Takes only one tiny seed to spread roots that run deep and wide. Takes only one spark to ignite a flame that spreads like wildfire. Takes only one person to be the one that chooses to make a difference.

So while praying for the soul of one who turned away, we plead with God to send just one. Someone who would speak a word at just the right time. Someone who could share truth bathed in love and grace. Someone they might encounter in the most unusual way. Someone who unexpectedly crosses their path. Someone who can say what we’ve already spoken but in a new way. Someone besides us that God chooses to send their way. Because every tiny seed planted has the potential to penetrate even the hardest soil and sprout roots.

Hard to navigate those tough journeys in life when we see so clearly the devastation that may lie ahead. Difficult to let go and let God write the redemption story of the souls we love. Yet, we hold on and we bow worn knees fighting the battle tirelessly until they come home.

Our hope, our peace is found in the One who loves them more than we ever could. God draws, seeks and waits for runaways to come home. He never gives up. He never forces. He never turns His back. God waits patiently and when that one tiny seed is planted, a miracle begins.

So while pleading for the soul of the one who turned away, we trust in a plan we can’t even see. We release our grip and raise our hands to praise our Redeemer who says I’ve got this. We commit to being a planter of tiny seeds so others will come home too.

“Father, reap the seeds planted.…bring back those who have slipped away…..amaze us with Your incredible plan to love them home.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 14, 2022

Bitter Waters Made Sweet

“Now when they came to Marah, they could not drink the waters of Marah, for they were bitter: therefore, the name of it was called Marah.” Exodus 15:23

The children of Israel have always fascinated me because an Israelite’s typical day could be viewed as no less than an emotional roller coaster. Judgingly, I’ve thought I would never react the way they did! How could they harshly attack Moses because things weren’t going ‘their’ way? After all, God had done so much for them for heaven’s sake! But how are they best remembered? Always complaining – an expression of discontent from within.

Examining the end of chapter 15, we find God testing the Israelites yet again! Barely joyously recuperating from the miraculous parting of the Red Sea, they find themselves walking three days in the Wilderness of Shur without water. Imagine the exhilaration when water was finally located only to discover it was bitter – unfit for human consumption! What follows? Attacking Moses by whining and griping!

Have you ever felt this way? Experiencing a spiritual high only to abruptly encounter another insurmountable obstacle in life? I have. I don’t know about you, but tests aren’t my favorite thing. But the reality is life is one big test! Complaining doesn’t change anything or make situations better. It amplifies frustration, spreads discontent and discord.

What is your latest test with God? Feel like complaining? How important it is that believers guard the words of their mouths! The scriptures tell us that our words are literally the basis for whether we are justified or condemned. Realizing this, we should eradicate negative words, bickering, or grumbling and fill our mouths with praise and thanksgiving! And, as with the Israelites, we can praise Jehovah Jireh our provider for making bitter water sweet!

“Lord, please help me to resist complaining and praise You.”

For His Glory

Patsy Sanders
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 12, 2022

Why We Love A Love Story

“The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed, and will bring me safely to His heavenly kingdom; to Him be the glory forever and ever.” Amen. 2 Timothy 4:18

I know the following idea flies in the face of political correctness and modern feminism (although, does “feminism” exist anymore since “gender is a social construct” and no one can actually define what a woman is?). But, let’s be honest, who doesn’t love a great love story?

There are the classics made popular in the 1950s by Walt Disney, like Cinderella, Snow White, and Sleeping Beauty. And there are the originals upon which most “classics” are based, like Beauty and the Beast, published in 1740, but inspired by a second-century tale from ancient Greece. Of course, there’s my favorite (and, if you haven’t seen it or read it yet, it will be yours too once you do): The Princess Bride.

These greats generally have a common theme: someone is in distress (usually a “damsel” of some sort), and then someone (typically a Prince) fights the good fight to rescue her.

But did you know that all the great fairy tales like these are mere shadows of THE ONE TRUE LOVE STORY? This original love story was written in eternity past, with the stage being set for thousands of years—from Creation until the first cries of the Prince’s arrival on the scene.

You see, this Greatest Story Ever Told, shows how all of humanity was in utter distress until our Prince (the Prince of Peace, Lord of lords, King of Kings) made a way to rescue us. Before being saved, we wandered through life—lost and broken—searching for that soul-level reunion pined for by every human. Meanwhile, Prince Jesus has fought and won the battle against our great enemies (sin and death), and He stands victorious awaiting that reunion with us.

Can you see it? Friend, this is why fairy tales resonate so deeply with people (women and men alike)! We have a deep, visceral need for rescue—a God-shaped hole in need of filling. But that need will never be satisfied by an earthly relationship, drugs, alcohol or shopping. This rescue is only successful when we grab the hand of the Great Rescuer, Jesus. And when we do, He will sweep us off our feet and make us His Bride. Then, when our time on this earth is done, we’ll go to His Kingdom to live eternally…literally, happily ever after.

“Jesus, You are The Knight in Shining Armor—our great Rescuer. I pray that just one person reading this will reach out and accept Your hand by faith, welcoming Your Victory for their life.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 11, 2022

Welcoming The Voice of God

“But my people did not listen to my voice; Israel would not submit to me. So I gave them over to their stubborn hearts, to follow their own counsels.” Psalm 81:11-12 (ESV)

“Old MacDonald had a farm…”  You probably remember those words from childhood; I sure do. Our home is in the city, but adjacent to our property is a farm with beautiful, lush pastures. And on that farm are some of the cutest cows you’ve ever seen. Often, they graze close to the fence dividing our property. My fave thing to do is to go outside and sing to them or simply just talk to them with a Moo Moo here and Moo Moo there – I think you get the picture.  Call me crazy – it’s okay.

Last week, I got a glimpse of the cows and headed outdoors ready to serenade them. One little problem. Despite my Moo Mooing and my singing, the cows totally ignored me. The closer I got to the fence, they actually moved further away oblivious to the fact that I was there just for them.  Totally upset, I marched back in the house proclaiming, “Those cows don’t care about me at all.” Just reading those words makes me laugh now. How silly of me to be frustrated with those cows who, yes ignored me, but were obviously more concerned about eating than hearing my voice.

Sweet friends, I can’t help but wonder how God must feel when we totally ignore His voice. He’s been speaking into our lives from the moment we took our first breath. Inviting us to experience the beauty of a relationship with Him (Revelation 3:20). One of my fave verses declares, “The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty One who will save; He will rejoice over you with gladness; He shall quiet you by His love; He will exult over you with loud singing” (Zephaniah 3:17). Wouldn’t we just love to know what He is singing over us today? Are we even listening?

The nearness of our God isn’t dictated by our acceptance or rejection of His voice. He whispers in the dark and lonely night. He calls out in the midst of the storm. He speaks deep truths through His Word and commissions His people (Isaiah 6:8).

What if Moses had ignored the voice of God calling to him from the midst of the burning bush? What if Samuel had dismissed the voice of God calling to him in the middle of the night? What if Job had been too distracted by his circumstances to hear God’s voice (Job 38)? What if we ignore the voice of God inviting us into a deep, abiding relationship with Him? What if we allow distractions to drown out the conversation God longs to have with us?

Ignoring the voice of God is a dangerous place to land. Psalm 81 reminds us that tuning out God carries significant consequences. Choosing our voice over His will result in God giving us over to our stubborn hearts.

Let’s not be oblivious to the voice of God. Let’s listen intently and follow His lead rather than seek our way. Let’s reap the blessings found in obeying God’s voice – it’s the best place to land.

“Father, cultivate within us a heart which yearns for Your voice, a mind which remembers Your words and a soul which is forever changed by Your presence.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 8, 2022

Avoiding Falls

“Whoever loves his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling.” I John 2:10 (ESV)

Who would have thought a simple puddle of water could create such havoc? My husband had been on crutches for weeks and even the smallest splash of water resulted in an almost mishap. Yes, we definitely don’t want to see him fall or hit the floor. So, nurse Janet had to be on her knees a lot  – seems every time I filled up his water bottle, changed his ice pack, etc., some residue of water ended up on the floor. Desperately trying to prevent any falls.

Wonder if I take the same precautions to cultivate an environment to prevent spiritual falls? So easy to justify what I want to do and how it’s so okay and not a stumbling block for me, but what about my brothers and sisters in Christ? We can rationalize our life away, excuse choices and claim it’s not hurting anyone but us. The truth is, as believers, we are the body of Christ – we are one. Whatever we do or fail to do affects the entire body of Christ.

If I take that thought outside the realm of my spiritual family, my choices can also create a huge barrier for those who don’t know Christ. Joining in on things I know don’t serve me well creates a double standard – one I tell others and the one I live. Compromises that don’t seem to faze us can be the last straw for someone else’s struggle with sin (Romans 14:13).

Our world desperately longs for authentic, true living. If we’re aligning ourselves with God, then we need to make sure we represent Him well. We’re His team, His ambassadors – the ones He entrusted with the gospel. Allowing our mishaps to spill over and cause others to tumble never pleases our Father. While we can’t control what others do, we can make sure we are anchored in His truth so our life choices won’t cause others to stumble. And when temptation arises, pause and reconsider is the pleasure of a moment worth the potential downfall of many. Simple answer – no. We were created to be light drawing others to the Father not entertaining darkness.

“Father, the ones who abide, linger and stay close to You keep their feet from stumbling and dragging others with them. Help us to stay far from the edge and resist compromise.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | July 5, 2022

Cultural Bond, James Bond

“For certain persons have crept in unnoticed…ungodly persons who turn the grace of God into licentiousness and deny our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.” Jude 4

Licentious is not a word that’s used often (if ever) anymore. But it is a stellar word, full of accurate meaning in today’s culture. So, how can it be defined? Simply put, it is to be lawless, impious, given to unrestrained sin and gross immorality. It’s an arrogance to do what you please, when you please, even though it may offend others—and offend God. An easy way to remember it is to think of those awesome James Bond movies through the decades. (This makes me wonder, who is your favorite Bond?) Anyway, James Bond has the moniker of 007—he has a “license to kill”…and this is similar to how we can think of licentiousness: It is a license to sin.

Back when Jude (and Jesus, Peter, Luke, Paul, and John) were talking about false teachers/teaching coming into the Church, there was a spiritual movement called Gnosticism that was permeating culture and infiltrating the young Christian movement. Basically, Gnosticism was a combination of Jewish, pagan, and some Christian beliefs, all muddled together with one primary teaching: Your spiritual life is all that matters; flesh is meaningless, so you can do whatever you want with your body—it doesn’t affect your “holiness” in any way. In other words, the good Gnostic would say, “I can do whatever I want with my body!”

Hmm. Sounds remotely familiar.

The first-century Church (and every century since) has been called to influence the culture of that day. To spread the Good News of the gospel and the transformative power of  God’s grace through Jesus Christ. And the Church, despite the Gnostics and the pagan cultures around at that time, was turning the world upside down (Acts 17:6)!

Today’s culture, if you haven’t noticed, is shameless. Activities that not so long ago were hidden and done in secret when no one was looking—generally known to be “bad” or “unacceptable” or even “sinful”—are now done in the light. They’ve been normalized. And beyond that, they have also become celebrated. Most recently (and most disturbing), many of these activities are becoming engrained into our legal systems, mandated. Whether or not it conflicts with religious/moral beliefs, they must be accepted, affirmed, and celebrated. And if you don’t, you are a hater, bigot, etc., and you very well might get kicked out of school or go to jail. (There are many examples to the above, but there is no need to list them.)

The issue for believers today is not just what is happening in the culture, the degradation and licentiousness—and the resulting reaping of what’s been sown for the past decades. While that’s important to acknowledge, it’s more vital to recognize that the culture is influencing and infiltrating the Church more than the Church is influencing the culture. And this is a huge problem.

A recent Barna survey (released May 2022) is terrifying. Across denominations and pastoral roles in the American Christian church, just 37% of pastors hold a Biblical worldview. In other words, little more than one-third of church pastors believe and behave in alignment with God’s Word. Despite the warnings given us in the Bible—from Jesus and His disciples and the epistle writers—licentiousness has crept in. And it’s taken over.

So, friend, be on guard in your church and with those pastors/teachers you listen to. Know God’s Word for yourself, so you can test what you’re hearing. If you don’t know the Truth, your ears will get itchy (2 Timothy 4:3) and you’ll be easy prey for the wolves in sheep’s clothing (Matthew 7:15). When the world around us embraces a license to sin, we need to stand firm on the Truth and be ready to defend our faith. And when that licentiousness results in pain, depression, and despair for those partaking in it, let’s be at the ready to give a reason for our hope (1 Peter 3:15).

“Lord, Your Truth will stand amid the false teaching and cultural darkness—help me to stand firm on it.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

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