Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 6, 2021

Jesus Knew

“Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come to depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.” John 13:1 (ESV)

Nothing sweeter than spending quality time with my besties.  Despite several delayed attempts for us to steal some time away for the beach, Fall  2021 didn’t disappoint.  Great weather, awesome friends – what more could a girl ask for?

The gift of friendship is a treasured jewel – in a world full of tweets, posts and less face to face interactions, we long for conversations and meals gathered around the table. Laughter filling the air.  Silence at just the right moments.  And the wisdom to know what to say and how to say it.  Chatting into the late hours of the morning.  Shopping until we drop exhausted.  Doing life together never felt better.

Your tribe, peeps, besties – whatever you call those you allow to draw close to your inner circle – it’s a trusted space reserved for those who love us to the end.

Jesus’ tribe of 12  – His inner circle – was comprised of doubters, tax collectors, fishermen, etc.  Ordinary men who left it all behind to follow Him.  Jesus knew them intimately, taught them, laughed with them and walked countless miles down dusty roads with His twelve.   Wouldn’t you have loved to hear some of those conversations as they gathered around a cozy fire? Three years full of miracles, lessons and closeness with the very Son of God.

John 13 unveils the riveting truth, Jesus’ time on earth was coming to a close.  His purpose would take on new heights as He suffered and died for our sins.  Betrayed by one of His closest and abandoned by all in his darkest hour.  Yet two pivotal words were nestled in these verses – Jesus knew.  Yes, He knew the clock was ticking and His days were fleeting on this earth.  Yes, He knew the one (Judas) who would sell Him out and the fleeing sandaled feet of His tribe scattering in fear when He needed them the most.

Jesus knew yet He lavishly laid aside His garments, lowered Himself, took a towel and washed the feet of His tribe.  A tender moment confusing to those whose dirty feet were touched and cleansed.  A final lesson in servanthood:

“If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet.  For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. Most assuredly, I say to you, a servant is not greater that his master nor is he who is sent greater that his master; nor is he who is sent greater than he who sent him,  If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.” John 13:14-17

Sweet friends, we are blessed indeed if we follow Jesus’ example – knowing, yet loving and serving until the very end.

“Father, the ultimate expression of Your love for this world culminated on the cross. Your sacrificial love compels us to do the same – give our all for the sake of others.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 3, 2021

Shopping For Hope

“And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call His name Jesus.  He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High.  And the Lord will give to Him the throne of His father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of His kingdom there will be no end.”  (Luke 1:31-33, ESV)

 The time is upon us where if we haven’t already, we start decorating for Christmas.  In my counseling office we put up an artificial tree. I started looking several weeks ago for ornaments for the office tree.  I wanted to put up word ornaments – the things that most people are seeking to find when they come to counseling.  You know, words such as, love, joy, peace, faith and hope.  I was able to find all the word ornaments, except hope. The name of my practice has the word hope in it.  So having hope on the office tree was important to me. I went shopping through various stores even searched online for hope. Unfortunately, everyone seemed to be out of stock – no hope available.

It made me ponder, how often do we go to the stores looking to purchase hope.  Disguised as the perfect gift for someone we love, or even for ourselves?  Trusting that somehow this gift will fill the hole of what’s missing or fix the problem.

God gave us the best gift of hope over 2000 years ago.  When He sent His Son Jesus to leave heaven and come to earth.  Jesus was the long-awaited Messiah (2 Samuel 7:12-16), the Savior of all mankind.  The birth of that little baby represented hope for women, men, poor, outcasts and people suffering.

This world was cruel back then and it’s cruel today. Sometimes evil does get the upper hand and good people suffer on this earth. But this earth is not the destination for a follower of Christ.  One day this earth will not exist anymore, it will burn away.  God will create a new earth and those of us who are in Heaven will witness Heaven coming down to the new earth.  That’s where we will live and reign with Jesus on the new earth.  From that point on, there will be no more death or pain – no one will ever be done wrong again.  Jesus will make everything right – that is our Hope.

If you’re in need of hope today you won’t find it in a store, you won’t find it in relationships with other people, or even in your job – the only place you will find lasting hope is through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

“Father thank You for the gift of salvation through Your Son Jesus and the eternal hope that I have – this life is painful but one day You will right all the wrongs ever done.”

 

For His Glory

Laura Holmes (www.ephraimministries.org)
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 2, 2021

Time For An Update

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Romans 12:2 (NIV)

We live in the technology age. Technology is an amazing invention, as it has enabled us to do an array of tasks without having to use paper and pen to accomplish them.

We now even conduct business meetings, church gatherings, training classes, and family reunions online, all with the pressing of buttons. One no longer needs to physically go to restaurants to order food, or to the bank to deposit checks, or to the store to buy groceries, medicine, or clothing. We can even get ourselves from any location to another by using a map from a device called global positioning system, or GPS.

This would sound almost too perfect if I didn’t have to throw in a spoiler. In order for any of these things to work smoothly, for any of the devices to work without problems, we must perform regular updates on them. Computer programs must be updated; smart phones must be updated; if you like talking to Siri or to Alexa, or if you like to stay current on what is going on with the highways as you plan a trip, you must subject your devices to updates so they stay current. And trust me, you don’t want an old version of something digital, because it will get you stuck in the middle of something important when you least expect it.

Friend, your mind is no different. Your spiritual life is no different. In order for you to know how to face the troubles that come your way – and they will, you must constantly work in the renewal of your mind, by praying regularly, studying the Word regularly, and ensuring that your soul is fed, just as you feed your physical body to keep it healthy.

Jesus spent time teaching the people because He knew how important it was for them to hear what He had to say. The Bible has all the instructions we need to live a healthy life, and as we study it and pray, the Spirit will renew our minds to the highest version: heaven.

“Thank You, Father, for the Holy Spirit, who empowers us.”

For His Glory

 

Luska Natali
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | December 1, 2021

A Web of Faithfulness

“May He equip you with everything good for doing His will, and may He work in us what is pleasing to Him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever.  Amen.”  Hebrews 13:21

It had been one of “those” days.  You know the kind.   It was late and I was ready to fall into bed, but I needed to take the trash to the curb for the next morning’s trash pick-up.  As I was walking back inside, I spotted a sizeable spider on the brick of our house.  We had a brief stand-off while I made sure it wasn’t going to lunge at me or sneak inside.  Once I realized the spider was harmless, we both went our separate ways and I quickly forgot about its existence.

The next morning, I opened our shades to the sight of three huge spider webs on our hydrangeas, thanks to last night’s spider!  The webs were a true work of art- delicate strands of silk connected to each other to form a perfect and beautiful pattern.  But perhaps the most amazing part was that the webs were anchored by a long strand of silk to other plants six feet across the yard.

How did this tiny spider anchor its webs to plants six feet away, and then get back to the hydrangeas to continue its web building?  How does it know to build such beautiful, intricate webs?  And to think the spider did all this work just so it could catch its next meal.  What faithfulness!  God didn’t spare any detail when He equipped His creation to fulfill its purpose.

The book of Hebrews is full of reminders to remain faithful to Jesus while pursuing our purpose here on earth.  The author encourages us to fix our thought on Jesus (3:1), to not harden our hearts to God’s voice (3:8), to hold firmly to our faith (4:14), to remain diligent (6:11), and to draw near to God (10:22).  At the end of the book, the author tells us that God will “equip you with everything good for doing his will (13:21).

Just as sure as the world turns, life will be full of distractions.  Cultivating the habit of remaining faithful to Jesus takes time and effort.  But the good news is that God doesn’t equip us with only a few good things and then send us on our way, hoping for the best.  Instead, He gives us instructions on how to remain faithful to Him, and then He equips us with everything good for doing what He has created us to do.

How can you be faithful in your purpose today?  Is God calling you to extend extra grace to your people, to clean up the same mess for the tenth time, to take a meal to a neighbor in need, or to accomplish a task that seems impossible?  Just as God created the spider with the ability to spin webs and anchor them for stability, God has equipped you with all you need to do His will for today.  Fix your thoughts on Jesus and draw near to Him, and God will equip you to build your own web of faithfulness.

“Lord, thank You for speaking to us through Your creation.  May we never stop pursuing You while we fulfill our purpose here on earth. 

 

For His Glory

 

Aubrey Carrales
TRBC Women’s Life

 

 

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 30, 2021

The Cocoon Life

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” 2 Corinthians 5:17

I don’t know of anyone who doesn’t pause in awe when seeing a butterfly. The variations of color and wing size make each creature uniquely marvelous. But what’s even more amazing, is the metamorphic process by which the butterfly emerges as itself.

A caterpillar wraps itself in a silk cocoon (chrysalis), during which time its old body is being broken down, dying to itself. An entirely new body is formed—a process called holometabolism. That’s not where it ends though! The butterfly has to break out of the protective shell it created, escaping the walls that would eventually kill it. But it is this part of the transformation that strengthens its wings, so when freed, it can boldly take flight.

Friend, this is our story in Christ! At the moment of surrender to Jesus—salvation—we are made new creatures! By grace through faith, our spiritual self goes from worm to butterfly. The problem, however, is that we are still in our old body. Our physical holometabolism has yet to happen. We are spiritually redeemed, but until we see Jesus face to face, we are cocooned in this earthly, sinful body living in a fallen, broken world. This, as the Apostle Paul writes often, creates a constant battle between new and old man—between flesh and spirit.

But just like the butterfly strengthens its new body as it works to be completely free of its cocoon, we can—must—strengthen our spiritual self as we walk through this world. We must “work out our salvation” (Philippians 2:12) by daily taking off the former “wormy” exterior and putting on the beautiful colors of Christlikeness. Although it won’t be complete on this earth, this external transformation can be quite remarkable and awe-inspiring.

So, how does this external process of becoming more like Christ happen for believers? We must be transformed by the renewing of our mind (Romans 12:2), setting our minds on the things above (Colossians 3:2). What is the source for this? God’s Word! We become like Jesus by knowing Him and His character. And we get to know Him through His Word—the Bible.

I imagine that once the caterpillar has been changed into a butterfly, with brilliantly colored wings designed to soar, its sole preoccupation is to tear down its constraining cocoon. Likewise, we have to be preoccupied with Christ: fixing our eyes on him; tearing down and starving out that which is sinful (Colossians 3:5-8); and building up that which is True and Beautiful (Galatians 5:22-23; Philippians 4:8).

Friend, becoming a Christian does transform us spiritually from worm to butterfly. But we will live a cocooned life until our body is glorified. Until that time, as we daily remove the layers of what keeps us trapped, we can reveal our colors to a dark world, demonstrating what we were truly all meant to be.

“Lord, I am a new creation in You. Help me walk out that spiritual reality as I make my way Home through this world.”

For His Glory

 

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 26, 2021

Listen Attentively

“Consider carefully what you hear.” Mark 4:24a (NIV)

The Bible spurs us about listening wisely. When Jesus taught the disciples and spoke in parables, He oftentimes ended with the phrase, “He who has ears, let him hear.” The importance of listening well is taught to us so that we don’t fall in the trap of misinterpreting what we hear or getting confused about what we hear.

I love children. As a matter of fact, I find it fascinating to watch children play together – or alone – as one can learn much from their behavior. I am the vovó (grandmother in Portuguese) of soon-to-be ten boys (unless number 10 is a girl), and I absolutely love to visit and spend time with them in their familiar surroundings, as I don’t live near all of them. I currently have grandchildren living in Buffalo, NY, and Tucson, AZ.

I also have three grandsons who live in Indiana, with whom I get to do fun things together, such as going swimming at the pool in my apartment complex.

A couple months ago, while at the pool with the boys, Nio, the youngest of the three, came to me crying with a scraped knee.  He wanted me to punish his oldest brother, Jayden, saying Jayden had pushed him, culminating with him getting himself hurt. Since that is not common Jayden-behavior, I called him over to my chair and asked him what was going on, and he acted surprised. I showed him Nio’s knee bleeding and asked if he knew anything about that. According to Jayden, he was trying to get back in the pool and Nio was grabbing him, so he pushed him away and jumped in the water.

You see, Nio never told me he had been horse playing with Jayden and that he was trying to prevent his brother from getting in the water, thus getting hurt. When I looked at Nio and said, “Nio, did you grab Jayden?” he started laughing. Guilty as charged!! Had I not confirmed with the source – or accused – if the story was correct as told to me, I would have punished the accused without justice. Injustice is not just unjust but also unfair. When in doubt, check it out!

“Father, help us to be fair and just when having to make a decision.”

 

For His Glory

 

Luska Natali
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 25, 2021

Writing Thanks On The Wall Of Your Heart

“Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind, for he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” Psalm 107:8-9

One of my favorite Thanksgiving traditions is our “Wall of Thanks.” Every November, on my kitchen wall (which incidentally is in the heart of our home), I write a scripture about thanks on the top of our giant chalkboard, and through Thanksgiving Day, daily every member of our family writes something they’re thankful for and whoever may come in our home—from plumbers to dinner guests— is invited to do the same. It’s a marvel to see the wall filled by Thanksgiving Day with so many written shouts of thanks.

I love the giant visual, but I ask myself…if my heart was a chalkboard, would it be as full of such notations? Am I being intentional to offer a record of my thanks to the Lord? Am I thanking Him not only for the big things but also the small things? Am I thanking Him not only for the good things but how He shows Himself faithful through the hard things? Am I thanking Him just for the things He does or am I remembering to thank Him for who He is?

These are questions each of us would do well to consider not only during November’s focus of thanks but really every day.

Often, what you see put on a tea towel or a wall hanging seems cute, but gets a little lost in the background: “There’s Always Something to Be Thankful For.” Do we really believe that? If so, taking an inventory of what fills our hearts with thanks is essential. We have so much to be grateful for, even on our hardest days. Even if there is not one thing before our eyes we can see to be thankful for, the Lord is worthy of our thanks simply for being good and faithful. Of course, we know that even on the darkest night, there’s still something we can witness to physically be grateful for, even if it’s the breath in our lungs.

So no matter how much you can or cannot see, examine your life and consider what’s written on the wall of your heart. What are you thankful for today?

Take account of your thanks and offer it to the Lord.

“Lord, Give us grateful hearts. Thank you for who you are and how you show yourself faithful to us each day.”

 

For His Glory

Emily P. Meyer (www.emilypmeyer.com)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 24, 2021

True Gratitude Blossoms In The Realm of Grace

“For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving,  for it is made holy by the word of God and prayer.” I Timothy 4:4-5 (ESV)

“End each day telling God thank you,” greets me each time I come into my kitchen.  This pretty little magnet on my fridge jogs my memory of all the endless ways God has blessed my life.  I would love to say I don’t need this reminder….but that sweet friends would not be true.  In this multi-tasking, chaotic world, our hearts and minds can easily become consumed with what’s not good and overlook the beauty of God’s faithfulness.

I’ve glimpsed and captured many beautiful sunrises and sunsets at the beach – but this week, I almost missed the one right out my window.  Beautiful oranges blending into still darkness as the sun began to rise and glisten against the cold Autumn morn.  Hues of purple and deep midnight filling up the space between empty trees offering us a quiet awe as the sun sets. Incredible beauties, and I didn’t even have to leave home to capture it – gloriously on display by our Creator God.

Any 24/7 can unveil a gratitude easily overlooked.  A smile when we need it the most.  Help from a co-worker when overload drowns us.  A kind word when least expected.  The prayer answered breathed at early dawn unfolding ever so sweetly. Extraordinary provisions.  Exceptional delays strategically guiding us in the right direction at the right time. The no which seemed so unfair definitively protecting us from the unseens.  The yes we simply couldn’t believe would ever be possible.  The darkest hour of our soul birthing the everlasting joy of God’s presence.  Quiet, reflective moments drinking deep of the love surrounding us.

November ushers in turkey, stuffing, pumpkin pie and gratitude as we gather around our table with family and friends.  Counting our blessings flows effortlessly.  Each one sharing their joys and the gratefulness of their hearts – eager to offer thanks.

Found it interesting that Webster defines gratitude as a feeling – a feeling of appreciation.  Wow just keeping it real here but our feelings ebb and flow.  Up one minute and down the next.  Grateful today and not so grateful tomorrow.

True gratitude as defined in the Greek speaks deeply to my soul –  giving thanks – a gratitude which blossoms in the realm of grace.  No fluctuating feelings here today and gone tomorrow.  A settled grace acknowledging the Giver of all things.  Steady, consistent and overflowing from hearts lifted up in adoration of the One true God who showers us with His neverending, lavish grace.

So sweet friends, how will we end each day – not just Thanksgiving Day, but all the days inbetween? Moments when the sun shines bright and all is well.  Moments when darkness overshadows and joy is depleted.

Let’s choose to end each day by telling our gracious God thank you – expressing true gratitude from hearts hopelessly in love with the One whose very presence births thankfulness.

 

“Father, ignite our hearts with thankfulness and gratitude. Help us to never forget all the ways You have blessed our lives with the sweetness of Your presence.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 23, 2021

Thankful For My Scars

“My troubles turned out all for the best – they forced me to learn from your textbook.”  Psalm 119:71(The Message)

 About 35 years ago, I was involved in a car wreck.  One that left me with a lot of scars.  One hundred and forty-four stitches across my head, a cracked sternum, broken knee and ankle just to name a few. I was in route to a job interview when out of nowhere comes this truck on the wrong side of the road.  Healing was long and painful. There were days that I didn’t want to move at all because of how I felt.  But one thing the doctors kept stressing to me was the importance of movement.  Because inactivity would only increase inflammation, increasing the chances of muscles dying and increasing the likelihood of me becoming unable to walk at all. To manage the pain without becoming too dependent on medication, I started focusing on holistic methods.  Learning more about how the body can heal itself through what we put in it (clean eating) and the importance of regular exercise.

In the spiritual, mental, emotional realm there’s been many things that have come at me head on and crushed me (just like that truck).  I’ve had people that I’ve loved abuse, abandon or betray me.  Leaving me more battered than that truck ever did. The emotional pain was almost too great to endure some days.

I never thought I would be thankful for the wreck.  But going through that traumatic event helped me to understand first-hand the importance of not living by my feelings.  Even though I was in pain in the mornings, I still had to get up and move.  Understanding the importance of not giving into how I was feeling but rather focusing on the truth – which was my body needed me to move.  I needed the physical therapy exercises to heal, even if I didn’t feel like doing them.  And the simple truth, after I did the exercises (even though I may have been in pain, I also felt better).

My physical scars have helped me grow through the darkest of my spiritual battles.  Regardless of how much emotional pain I’m in, I know I need to spend time in the Word every morning preparing my heart. I need to talk things over with Jesus daily.  I need to make steps forward each day in my spiritual journey.  Just like my physical muscles will atrophy if I don’t move, so will my spiritual muscles. If I give in to how I’m feeling, emotional pain will only get worse, not better.

The spiritual battles have pushed me to study God’s Word deeper. Not being satisfied with just Sunday morning preaching.  I didn’t want to get hooked on anything but Jesus to help with me with the spiritual/emotional pain.

“Father I thank you for the scars that have driven me closer to you.”

 

For His Glory,

Laura Holmes (www.ephraimministries.org)
TRBC Women’s Life
 

Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | November 22, 2021

Sorted

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a dragnet cast into the sea, and gathering fish of every kind; and when it was filled, they drew it up on the beach; and they sat down and gathered the good fish into containers, but the bad they threw away. So it will be at the end of the age; the angels will come forth and take out the wicked from among the righteous, and will throw them into the furnace of fire; in that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.” Matthew 13:47-50

We all sort things. Every day. At the grocery store, we sort through the tomato bin, choosing the good tomatoes from the squishy and bruised ones. For us beach people, we sort through the myriad shells in the sand, seeking those treasures beautiful to our eyes. And most of us, every single day, sort through tens (or hundreds) of emails, pressing “delete” on many, moving some into folders for a later read, or pausing whatever we’re doing to take in those that need to take precedence.

But, friend, did you know that there will come a day when we will be the ones being sorted? The Bible—in fact, Jesus Himself—not only talks about the separation of those who reject God from those who accept Him, but also about a sorting that will take place among the Church.

Not all who are churchgoers or claim to be Christians are. That’s a harsh thing to say out loud (well, to write out loud). For example, the “dragnet” in Matthew 13 is the Church—the sea is the world. Within the Church, there are wolves in sheep’s clothing (Matt 7:15-23)…and, today, there are an awful lot of wolves in wolf’s clothing being accepted in churches around the world. Sadly, these false teachers (heretics and apostates) are misleading the masses, often pulling them away from the Truth of God’s Word.

This was true in the first century Church, when the Apostle Paul consistently warned believers of heretics and errorists, pushing worldly philosophies, legalism, mysticism, and asceticism (see Colossians 2). And these false teachings are alive and well in Christian churches today. So, how do we ensure we’ll be sorted into the “good fish containers”?

Regardless of what church denomination you attend (and as believers we are called to not give up meeting together—Hebrews 10:25), you must stand firm on God’s Truth. Followers of Jesus Christ must stay rooted in the Bible, being nourished only by the vine (Jesus). We must surrender ourselves to Him and be filled (controlled by) the Holy Spirit. We are complete in Christ (Col 2:10). It’s not “Jesus and” or “Jesus but”—it’s just Jesus.

A sorting is coming. Don’t get caught up with the smelly, rotten fish.

“Lord, may I stay rooted in You and You alone, not being deceived by the wolves in the world—and in the Church.”

 

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

 

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