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“But love your enemies….” Luke 6:35a (ESV)

Ever met someone who challenged you but not in a good way? We’ve probably all experienced moments when doing life with someone who doesn’t see things the way we do pushes our buttons. We try to sugar coat it at first. We even attempt to dismiss the irritation for a while. But the differences seem to build rather than melt. Simply put they get under our skin.

Been there a few times myself when opposites definitely didn’t attract. Also endured seasons of pretense and unexpected motives. Learned the hard way that not everyone can be trusted. Harbored some not good feelings for way too long – didn’t serve me well.

Wonder if the one who wasn’t like me felt the same way I did? Could they also be challenged because I’m so different than they expected? Causes me to dig deep and ponder that thought. Perhaps their buttons were pushed and irritation overtook their actions.

We don’t often flip the coin and view the “other’s perspective” when we zero in on our world. Much easier to feed our feelings of hurt and woundedness than uncover what’s lying under the surface. More common to respond, react and cherish bitter.

Reminded today of Jesus’ words – love your enemies. Quite the opposite of what we tend to do. Definitely not our default. Not only did He instruct us to love them, but we are to pray for them and do good for those who hate us. Wow not quite sure I could ever do that – in fact, I know I can’t – not in my human frailty. So glad I don’t have to depend on self to move me from hate, dislike and bitterness to love, kindness and mercy. His supernatural power working within me can achieve far more than I could ever accomplish. And the choice sweet friend is simply obedience to Jesus’ words. Embracing the better way to do life than cherish our hurts and preferences.

Got any enemies hovering around your circle today? Wonder what would happen if we let go of the drama and chose instead to pray for them. And while we’re praying for them, let’s pray for ourselves that we will see them through God’s eyes. Let’s avoid quick reactions and pause, reflect, pray and seek God’s guidance. Let’s ask Him to strengthen us so we can truly love the way He loves. Keeping it real here – we won’t be perfect but let’s not settle for excuses. Instead let’s purpose now to glorify Him even in challenging relationships.

“Father, You have created each of us. Our differences offer us an opportunity for You to sharpen us, purify us and refine us to be more and more like You.”

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life