Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 21, 2021

Unbearable

“And Jesus said to them, “Do you believe that I am able to do this?” Matthew 9:28

You’ve probably heard it said by well-meaning Christians and non-Christians alike: “God won’t give you more than you can handle.” Really? What about all the mindless escapism into social media or binge-watched shows? What about the rampant alcohol and drug abuse in an effort to numb the pain of overwhelming circumstances? What about the growing number of people who feel they absolutely cannot “handle” their situation, so much so that they choose to permanently end the pain and take their own life? (Suicide is the second leading cause of death for Americans age 10-34—those are pre-COVID lockdown stats too. Let that sink in.)

In fact, during my adult life—even my Christian adult life—I’ve been through a lot of very, very hard things. Many of which, frankly, I could not handle. They were simply unbearable. But I am 100% certain that every person reading these words can say the same thing. We have been spiritually, emotionally, psychologically (and, for some of us, physically) pummeled. The storms of this life have brought immeasurable pain to our very souls.

Sisters, as we walk through this fallen world, our steps will take us through plenty of things we cannot handle ourselves. But you know what? There is no circumstance, struggle, or storm too hard for the Creator of the universe (Jeremiah 32:17). When we recognize (and dare I say, admit) that we are not able, but HE IS ABLE, and we surrender the unbearable, a beautiful thing happens…God takes on what we cannot. When we ask, He will answer. Sometimes He floods the darkness with light, so we can see the way…other times, He just carries us through the blackness until we come out the other side.

We will experience a lot of things in life that are not only more than we can handle, but impossible for us to handle. But “is anything too hard for the Lord” (Genesis 18:14)? No! Nothing is too hard for Him (Jeremiah 32: 27). And when we do get through those impossible, unbearable times, it will be unmistakable Who got us though. And all the praise and glory will go to our Lord. After all, that is the point.

In fact, if you are a Christian, then you know a deep Truth about God’s ability to do the impossible (Matthew 19:26). Through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, you were saved. On the cross, He took on your unbearable sin to pay the penalty for you. And if He is able to do that, then how can we think anything is too hard for Him?

“Lord, You are able. May I always surrender my unbearable to You, giving you praise and glory in and out of the storms”.

For His Glory

 

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 20, 2021

Clearing Out Clutter

“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Matthew 6:21 (HCSB)

I was a bit fearful as we began the study, Breathe: Making Room for Sabbath…if you saw my closets and calendar, you would understand why. I was certain God would use this study to call me to get serious about clearing out the clutter and ordering my priorities.

Would he ask me to tackle the closets first, or would He be more concerned about the overcrowding which had crept into my schedule? As I leaned in to hear Him, He startled me with His loving whisper. Clear out the clutter in your heart. Seriously, God? Have you seen my closets? Do you see how busy I have become? I have some real work to do…

Unconvinced my heart was the project God wanted us to tackle, I set aside Breathe and turned to my daily devotional, New Morning Mercies. Running to something else when confronted with something uncomfortable. Surprisingly my breath was taken away by these words: “You and I don’t need to be rescued from the idols around us, we need to be rescued from our idolatrous hearts.” The scripture reference was Ezekiel 20, where the word Sabbath is used six times. Thank you, Lord, for your gentle confirmation.

Opening my heart to Him, God began showing me what needed to go. Hurts I was holding on to, fear of rejection and failure that was holding me back, good things—friendships, work, marriage, the perfect pair of shoes—that I had made in to ultimate things (idols); wanting them to meet needs that only Jesus can meet. Lesser things taking up space in my heart. Space I want to reclaim so that I can love Him and others better.

So, I will work at this…cleaning out the clutter of my heart. Maybe I’ll get to the closets, too…

“Thank you, Lord, that you know us better than we know ourselves. Give us the wisdom and courage to get rid of everything that cannot be used to bring You glory.”

 

For His Glory

Ann Skalaski (www.shifting-sand.com)
TRBC Women’s Life

 

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 19, 2021

Rooted

“Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, And whose hope is the Lord. For he shall be like a tree planted by the waters, which spreads out its roots by the river, And will not fear when heat comes; But its leaf will be green, and will not be anxious in the year of drought, nor will cease from yielding fruit.” Jeremiah 17:7-8

When a new year comes, many of us (in lieu of or in addition to resolutions) choose a word for the year—a singular focus with great depth and width of meaning to us. A simple reminder to think, feel, and do in a way that captures that intention. Simple, yes…easy, not so much.

As 2019 was upon us, I had been in a new community for six months. And although I’d already been digging in at church, I had a desire to establish roots that spread wider (volunteer work, friendships, activities) in order to truly connect and make that town home. The word I chose made sense and carried layers of meaning for me: ROOTED.

Of course, come March, activity—and thus connectivity—ceased. I’d been working remotely since we’d moved, and I’d even quit my job just before COVID hit the proverbial fan, so I could pursue work that would allow me to be among people and not sit alone all day in my house. (Ironic, no?) Needleless to say, rooting in became a bit more difficult.

Fast forward to January 1, 2021. Interestingly, my word for 2021 is the same as for 2019. Here I sit, in another new town where I know no one. My mind and heart are once again intent on establishing friendships, a church family, etc. I need to get ROOTED. So, it makes sense that ROOTED is my focus word for the new year, right? It is, but I chose it for very, very different reasons.

Sisters, I am confident that the year(s) ahead will hold many more challenges than did 2020. Our nation founded on liberty and freedom—specifically the freedom to worship God outside the mandates of the government—is quickly changing. The Truth of God’s word held by believers is increasingly being mocked, suppressed, and outright erased. Christians are being shut up and shut out—even out of our own houses of worship.

For believers in the U.S., storms are fast approaching. So, our roots must be deep. For me (and I pray for you), being rooted takes on Biblical proportions. Literally (Mark 4:1-20; Matt 13:1-23). We must hold fast to God’s Word and His Truth, trusting and hoping in Him alone. We must stand firm on the promises of God while the wind and waves try to blow us over. Sisters, unless we are deeply rooted in the Word and in a faithful community of believers, we may easily topple under the cultural pressure.

Roots not only keep trees standing securely, roots nourish for sustenance and fruit-bearing. Similarly, staying in God’s word and connected with other believers will feed our souls and allow us to bear sweet fruit to a hungry world. So, whatever your resolution or word-of-the-year, I hope you add “ROOTED” to the list.

“Lord, I pray that I—and fellow believers in our nation—get firmly rooted in the Truth, so the lies of the enemy will not prevail.”

For His Glory

 

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 15, 2021

Worship Loud

“The Lord is in His holy temple; the Lord is on His heavenly throne. He observes the sons of men; His eyes examine them.” Psalm 11:4 (NIV)

Morning sun rose, knees hit the floor and shower beckons me. Dressed, lunch packed and my stuff gathers on the barstool. Gym bag ready and the aroma of breakfast cooked by my honey leads me to the kitchen. It’s just another day as a smile and kiss greet my morning. Clock ticks away, tv hums news in the backdrop and then we break bread – God’s Word. Savored, chewed and digested before the world invades our space. Covered by my husband’s prayer, we bow heads before feet go out the door.

Amazing the difference – when hearts are turned toward and lifted up before agendas steal us away. Humbling the effect – when breaking bread and fervent prayers quiet angry words or frustrated souls. Challenging to say the least – when cherishing the best takes precedence over all the rest. Incredible the feeling – when doors open and shut knowing love covers all. Wonder if God smiles when morning worships loud before the rush begins?

Traffic whirls, people drift – same places and routines serenaded by tunes. Just another day unfolding. Maneuvering between lanes, I remember His Words – to love my neighbors. I reflect on His Words – to keep a tight rein on my tongue. I pull into my parking spot and step out my car; I remember prayers to glorify Him in all I say, all I do – words my husband spoke over me.

Don’t have to wonder if God smiles when we worship loud. I know He does, because loving God with all our heart, soul and mind propels us to keep Him first before the rest of our world rushes in.

“Father, let the world hear You in me, let the world see You in me and most of all let the world want You because they know You live in me.”

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Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

 

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 14, 2021

Separate Yourself

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? … Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? What agreement has the temple of God with idols? … Therefore, go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you.” 2 Corinthians 6:14-17

Much like the ominous novel 1984 by George Orwell, truths are being viewed as lies and lies truth. Right is wrong and wrong is right. History is being rewritten, and—most frightening—freedom of speech (even thought) is being squelched (i.e., “cancelled”). Although Christians in our beloved nation have not suffered the level of persecution known around the world for centuries, our values, morals, and beliefs have certainly been subject to suppression more and more over the past 50 years. The intensity and severity, however, has been growing exponentially over the past decade. And, it is common knowledge, that during the past 12 months alone, God’s Church has been relegated to “non-essential.”

Sisters, now more than ever, we must step away from this world to be different. Within the ever-deepening darkness, we must think, act, and speak differently. The god of this world (Satan) knows his time is waning, and he is working overtime to gain more of a foothold while he has the chance.

It is time for us to stand firm. To draw a line in the sand. We must decide, today, not to conform to this world (Romans 12:2). This is not our home, as we are not citizens of earth, but of heaven, from which we eagerly await our Savior, Jesus Christ (Philippians 3:20). James clearly states that friendship with the world makes us God’s enemy (James 4:4)!

So, what is “friendship” with the world? God’s word talks a lot about this—just read through 1 John, Titus, or 2 Peter, or James. The bottom line? It’s putting anything before the Lord. Selfish desires, fleshly pleasures, wealth obsession, social media idolatry, etc. This is status quo for unbelievers, but as Christians, even after having been transformed into a new creation (2 Cor 5:17), we will also struggle against our natural desires until the time of our perfection. It’s a battle, for sure.

But what’s imperative to note is how the world has crept into the Church, condoning immorality as merely “culturally modern.” So instead of the Church body helping to sanctify believers, it instead waters down—or twists—the Word, deceiving people into thinking their actions are “holy” when they are not. This makes standing firm in our faith even more of a challenge. (This has been going on since the first century, so it’s nothing new.)

There are three things for us to take away from all this: (1) Let’s choose to be different and stand firm on God’s Truth, which can only happen if we know the Truth—the Bible; (2) Let’s be sure that the church we attend is rooted in God’s Truth, teaching pure Scripture and not adding to it or taking from it—and believing that the gathering together of the body is essential, especially in a crisis; (3) Persecution—not just suppression—is coming, so the first two things are non-negotiables.

“Lord, help me stand firm in Your Truth amid the shifting—and pelting—sands of this world.”

For His Glory

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 13, 2021

My Dwelling Place

“I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.”  Psalm 91:2 (NIV)

I had waited so long for this gift.  It represented coming of age, so to speak.  A mark of confidence.  The wait was long as was the struggle. I veered off course more than a few times. But now, the package had arrived. I eagerly pulled back the bows as the lid of the box popped open.  I dug into the tissue paper.  The colors surrounding my prize were as vibrant as the blue sky following a rain’s downpour.  Even my sense of smell was awakened. And as I examined my long awaited reward, I realized this wasn’t the gift I’d ordered.

This wasn’t what I was told it would be. Not what I had planned for. Certainly not what I sacrificed to get. I took the longest road to get here.  Gave up more than most would.  Overlooked. Forgotten. Placed on hold.  And now.  The gift-giver would not accept a return.  Not even an exchange.  I was asked to do the inconceivable. I was asked to accept the misplaced order, change my entire approach and continue on.

I had no idea that it’s not the gift that makes the person but rather how the gift is used.  “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1).  As much as I love an afternoon nap, rest during my trial had nothing to do with reviving one’s energy.  My rest was active.  I needed to actively grip my Savior’s hand and allow Him to lead.  To lead the change, to lead my heart, to lead where I could not go.  What would most glorify Christ?  No bitterness became my prayer.  Oh, how I appreciated my godly sisters who had perspective I did not and who encouraged me to stay the course.

Days of this journey turned to weeks and eventually my sojourn did end.  Looking back, I realize that the greater gift was in the unexpected.  Glorifying Christ at each turn, acting on His principles, focusing on His love produced a work I could never have on my own. Nothing was left undone. His fingerprint was on everything. Rather than hurt, He healed.  The end result was more love, more trust and preparedness to move on.

“May we trust You, Lord. May Your gifts draw us closer to You.  May we more clearly reflect Your glory within a world of division and decay.”

For His Glory

Kathryn Hayman
TRBC Women’s Life

 

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 12, 2021

Hope In The Lord

“The Lord is my portion,” says my soul, “Therefore I hope in Him!” Lamentations 3:24

We were all waiting for 2020 to be over, as if by magic all the insanity and uncertainty and strife of the year would disappear. We thought that turning that calendar page would lift the fog to a new, bright day. We put our hope in 2021 for healing, happiness, and hope.

To quote Dr. Phil, “How’s that working for you?”

After merely a handful of days, it’s clear that this new year will most likely be another insane and uncertain season. It’s hard to believe that just one short (or endless, depending on how you look at it) year ago, there seemed to be a feeling of peace and clarity. As for me, our family members and friends were doing well, the economy was strong, and there was a sense of calm assuredness within the constant surrender to God’s will. My kids had a vision for the future and accompanying plans. Even amid the challenges of the initial months of 2020 (and there were plenty), we saw blessings and trusted that the Lord’s ultimate plans were for our good and His glory.

Today, however, I look ahead to 2021 like a big blurry face—you know, like when someone doesn’t want to be identified on TV, so their image is blurred and pixilated. The months—and years—ahead at this point seem completely unknown. When I look around and try to envision the future (especially for my children), I can feel despondent and, if I’m totally honest, somewhat hopeless.

But, in talking with a beloved sister of mine the other day, she reminded me of a Biblical mandate—a simple exhortation that’s easy to forget when we get caught up in the things of this world: As Christians, we are to HOPE IN THE LORD.

It’s not “hope in the Lord, AND…” or “hope in the Lord, BUT…” We are to hope in Lord. PERIOD.

So, sisters, where is our hope? If we have been trusting in any person or entity other than the Lord, know this: They will fail us, forsake us, abandon us. God will not. He is trustworthy all the time. (Don’t get me wrong, He hates evil and will judge and punish people and nations who have turned away from Him—but that’s another blog.)

So, whatever 2021 brings, let us decide to hope in the Lord. Period. As the Psalmist writes, “Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart, all you who hope in the Lord” (Psalm 31:24).

“Lord, forgive me for putting my trust in anyone and anything other than You. Let me hope in You and You alone.”

For His Glory

 

Julianne Winkler Smith
TRBC Women’s Life

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 11, 2021

Leaving Criticism Behind

“And he (Saul) said, “Who are you, Lord?” And he said, “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting.” Acts 9:5 (ESV)

Can honestly say I’ve never given much thought to those seemingly effortless words spewing out of my mouth – criticism  against our body – the body of Christ.  I’m sure I’m not alone in this nitpicking of what a fellow believer said or didn’t say.  I’m positive I’m not the only one who has felt the need to critique someone’s attire, actions or attitude.  And while we probably never uttered a word to their face, we’ve been steeped in our own judgment and preferences of men and women who faithfully serve our God.

When we tear down one of our own, we are tearing down all of us.  We can’t kick the leg without pain resonating throughout the entire body. We can’t wound one without its impact far reaching to us all. What is done against one of the body of Christ is done against our Jesus.

If we listen carefully to Jesus’ words to Saul, the great persecutor of the church, we finally get it. Saul’s passion and drive ultimately resulted in rage and hatred. His persistence to eliminate Jesus followers was paramount yet Saul found himself facedown blinded by the light of Truth – a truth he could no longer deny.   These very words from Jesus (Acts 9:5) quickened the heart of Saul who thought he was championing the right cause, the right way.

Perhaps we’ve landed there as well – thinking what we are saying and doing is right without regard for others.  Can easily count the moments when words sent deep darts aimed at the heart of those we should have been encouraging. Now don’t get me wrong here – accountability is critical for our spiritual growth.  We should actively spur each other on and be iron that sharpens iron.  Speaking truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) aims towards reconciliation, restoration and growth.  Speaking our mind and unloading criticism births rejection, woundedness and disunity.

Today is a great day to examine the true motive behind our critical words against others.  Does it stem from an unhealthy insecurity within ourselves?  Do we find great pleasure in spotlighting our idea of perceived lack in others?  Are we genuinely concerned and interceding for those we easily find fault in? Do we fail to recognize our tearing down the body of Christ is ultimately targeted at Jesus?

Sweet friends, we can be agents of change if we purposefully pursue prayer versus critique.  We can build up the body of Christ if we engage in accountability versus alienation.  We can demonstrate God’s love to our world if we first love our brothers and sisters in Christ versus judgement (John 13:35). Let’s make 2021 the year we pray, encourage and strengthen – we need each other more now than ever before.

“Father examine our hearts and expose any areas of criticism targeted against the body of Christ and others.  Help us to be reflectors of Your love and stand as intercessors versus critics.”

 

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 8, 2021

Best Investment Ever

“I, wisdom, dwell with prudence, and I find knowledge and discretion.” Proverbs 8:12 (ESV)

If you’re an avid reader like me, then you’ve probably already started your list for 2021.  Flipping through the pages of a great read is one of my fave things to do. And there are so many to hit that list already.  Countless journeys to experience and wisdom to be gained.  Loads of practical tips and stories coming alive right before our eyes.

Last year, I was challenged and inspired by Dream Big (Bob Goff).  Great words and application encouraging us to not settle for anything less than God’s best.  Ripple Effects (Pam Tebow) cheered us on to maximize our God-given opportunities for influence. Praying the Scriptures for Your Adult Children (Jodie Berndt) invigorated and reignited my conversations with God.  You Can Trust God To Write Your Story (Nancy & Robert Wolgemuth) illustrated unique and intriguing ways God providentially works in the lives of His people. And just this past week, I turned the last page to Becoming Elisabeth Elliot a convicting read of total surrender to God’s plan.

Just a glimpse of what’s been filling my shelves – how about you?  What books encouraged, inspired or challenged you this past year?

Now I totally get it if sitting by a cozy fire or lounging on the beach with a book in hand doesn’t appeal to you.  For some reading is simply not enjoyable.  One of the great reasons I love Audible Books.  To sit still and flip the pages of a book for my husband is not doable so he has listened to numerous books which have enlightened and enriched his thinking.

Whether you’re flipping pages or turning up the volume, we all gain valuable insight from other’s faith walk. Best read I’ve ever read and continue to read is God’s Word.  No matter how many times I’ve encircled those passages, God has fresh insights just for what I need today.  Incredible stories of faith, deep truths, loving guidance  and hope filled encouragement for those moments when life gets hard. Never a dull read – simply put it’s the best investment guaranteed to serve us well if we take it to heart.

So sweet friend release those excuses and dive deep into God’s Word this year.  Paper or audible  – both work great.  And while you’re on the reading journey grab ahold of some other reads which will propel you closer to being all God desires for your life.  Decide now to make 2021 your best year ever!

“Father, we are blessed to have full access to Your Words equipping, transforming and encouraging our hearts.  May we seize all opportunities in 2021 to grow in our walk with You.”

 

For His Glory

Janet Martin
TRBC Women’s Life

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Posted by: trbccoffeebreak | January 7, 2021

Connectedness

“I thank my God every time I remember you.” Philippians 1:3 (NIV)

When I was a child, our family would take summer vacations to visit relatives we didn’t get to interact with regularly, so we could get to know them better. Today, with the benefits of cellular phones, computers and social media, one no longer needs to spend a large lump sum of money to interact with their loved ones. Take, for instance, my children, who all live at the geographical oddity of 10-12 hours’ drive from me. If it were not for technology and social media (Facebook, Instagram, Skype, Whattsapp, etc), we would not be as connected as we are. On any given day, I may be sitting in the comfort of my home chatting with my children and grandchildren on Skype on my phone or on my laptop, or reading about their day on Facebook or Instagram. Though the way in which we interact today is quite different than when I was growing up, connectedness is something most people enjoy feeling.

In the Biblical times, letters kept people connected. The Apostle Paul wrote several letters to greet different churches and people he wanted to encourage and, at times, admonish. In spite of all the technology we have available today, I still enjoy getting out a card or some paper and practicing some penmanship by writing a note to someone I have not seen in a while, or someone who needs encouragement, or a congratulatory note of sorts… I even delight myself in putting some shiny confetti shaped as hearts, stars, musical notes, or any other fun shape in my letters to brighten someone else’s day.

Whatever the means that keeps you connected with those you love – letters, cards, phone calls, text messages, prayer, and so forth – be encouraged that you may be the reason someone has remained true to God’s Word and has not given up on believing. You make a difference for the kingdom.

“Lord, You are the reason we live. You are the life.”

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Luska Natali
TRBC Women’s Life

 

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